I have this new cowoker..for two month, I have big time crush on her, i AKSED her twice for date (she is single) but she refussed/rejected me..
As you know how strong you are rejection always hurt,, but worse thing is she is so flirt,, she flirt with every body at work (off course except me).. she sit in different cabin, but she come often to my cabin and flirts for long time with another married coworker(who sit next to me).. SO I fell so bad each day, jeliousy, rejections..it hurt bad..
what you do in this matter... should i quite job,, everyday she come and flirts around,, the wound get fresher and fresher ... it is tough to deal.. i am hurting each day...
2007-01-09 13:10:03 · 13 answers · asked by mopugh s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she flirts with them because they cannot commit to her.she is afraid of a real relationship.find someone on your level more mature looking for something that can work.
2007-01-09 13:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can try changing your attitude or perspective on this. The way I see it is that you have asked her out twice now and she said no. Therefore, she knows that you like her and she may be trying to spare your feelings and that is why she isn't flirting with you. I know this is probably hard to believe, but this is probably why she isn't flirting with you. Don't take it personally. There is no need to quit your job. When it comes time to do lay offs, who do you think they will get rid of? The girl who spends her day flirting with everyone or the person who sits at his desk all day working? Of course they will get rid of her. Don't let others control your behavior. Just move on and find yourself a nice woman who appreciates the sweet and sensative person you are. Good Luck!
2007-01-09 21:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her do this to you she knows what she is doing and why do you even want someone who goes around sitting on everybody lap she sounds like a really bad person forget her you deserve better. Stop letting her get to you because you are falling right into her hands and she is laughing She is not a good person when you look at her just shake you head like you are disgusted and make her wonder a while.....
2007-01-09 21:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont quit your job if you love it, try and move on from the hurt and ignore her flirting. is there any way you can move your desk to get away from that area? if you could then you should do it... and if she spends so much time in your cabin flirting instead of working she really isnt the kind of girl you want. besides if you went out with her, would you want her to be flirting with everyone in the building?
2007-01-09 21:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by kallissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is evil. Don't quit your job because of her. She will get what is coming to her and will flirt with the wrong person and get fired. I am sorry it still hurts. It will get better in time. It took me a very long time to get over this one boy. Just like that evil co-worker lady, he flirted with me and then flirted with other girls right in front of me. it was like emotional torment or something! I mean, who DOES that to people? Why would they do such a God-awful thing to us nice people. Oh well, you will find somebody and she'll be better thn the office floozy. Good luck!
2007-01-09 21:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by Walking Contradiction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you have strong feelings for this girl, and i guess you should tell her how you feel, even if it sounds ridiculous, if she still rejects, tell her that you really did like her, and it hurt being rejected. but maybe you should wait a little longer cuz its only been 2 months!!! so you should just wait but if you cant tell her straight out and make sure your looking straight in her eyes while doing it! and dont let her look away! if she still turns you down just remember that one saying "there's other fish in the sea" or is it "there's a lot of fish in the sea" or something like that either way! you will find someone that will like you just as much as you like them!
good luck! :]
2007-01-09 21:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by x3_myz_k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bite your lip and deal with it....if she is a big flirt and your already jealous when you don't go out with her then you'll be a wreck if you actually do. Try to get over her and check out other women around the area....other fish in the sea
2007-01-09 21:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously for some reason she isn't interested in you. I'm sure you're a nice guy and handsome so find someone else who deserves you and forget this chick. She's probably doing it to bother you anyway. If you "act" like you're not interested maybe she'll come around. Think about it.. reverse psychology!
2007-01-09 21:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a c.ock tease, she likes to flirt for fun, she doesn't want to go out with you. She sees the married men as a challenge, you're not a challenge.
2007-01-09 21:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get wasted and start picking up chicks ull find some one eventually
2007-01-09 21:16:29 · answer #10 · answered by Reaper G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋