Dumped me wednesday for not understanding about her "health issues" and pushing her too much. So I felt guilty, called yesterday and was nice and said hope your Doctor's trip went well and that there was no serious issues. She won't call me back but text messaged right away saying everything ok but needed couple more tests. Asked me a question about what I was doing real quick and that was it. Can't get her to call me since she dumped me so there is no "real" closure. I feel better because I showed I wasn't selfish (which was her reasoning for the break up) but was it a mistake if I want her back? Or should I just not contact at all and assume that since she texted me, she just needs time to call. I am moving on regardless but I really like the girl, any possibilities of a second chance here? Opinions please.
2007-01-09 13:05:42 · 7 answers · asked by D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
D, you're an idiot. People don't just start talking to each other after they break up! Wait maybe a couple weeks.
2007-01-09 13:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you have to contact her....if you don't and you still want her then your stupid! Look at it this way, she broke it off for some queer reason and your baffled by it.....she is obviously guilty feeling because you did the exact thing you should "BE SWEET TO HER". Because you were sweet she got guilty conscience and now feels bad for breaking it off....give it another 2 - 3 days with a text message every once in a while telling her that you're sorry or you love her....you'll be back together before you know it.
2007-01-09 21:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't push you away especially during a time like this.If you both love each other wouldn't you want to be together during hard times too?That's what makes a relationship stronger.Well she did text you,maybe she needs a little time alone only she knows whats going on up in her head.Some people react different than others.That was nice of you to ask about her health outcome.Good luck.
2007-01-09 21:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was nice that you made the effort, but you can't cure your selfishness over night. Take time to look at yourself so that this selfish problem you have won't interfere with future relationships.
If you truly care about her give her a little space and time, but let her know that you are concerned about her. Also let her know that you've taken what she's said about your selfishness into consideration. Ultimately you can't beg her to take you back. But don't be afraid to let your guard down and tell her how you feel. If that doesn't work...move on. Best of luck to you....and her!
2007-01-09 21:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by BJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right to contact her. It shows that youdo care about her and her health. I would give it a week or so and call her again to see if she had her other tests done and take it from there.
2007-01-09 21:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wont even answer ur calls then shes just acting like a little girl just move on theres prolly someone else rite underyour nose whos in to you :)
2007-01-09 21:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by staceydv4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds pretty goofy and playing mind games. let her go.
2007-01-09 21:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋