I dont want to take the ring and run... and i dont want to make my current boyfriend feel bad... should i listen to my heart? Should I take the ring or not? I don't know what to do, help!
2007-01-09 13:01:04 · 16 answers · asked by Juliana Tate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you say you THINK you like someone else how much do you really care for your boyfriend just remember dont leave the one you love for the one you like cause the one you like will leave you for the one they love. . .
2007-01-09 13:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Marilyn S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha, Funny thing i just bought my girl friend a really nice ring for xmas and latly we have been having a hard time in our relationship, i love her with all my heart but im not sure how she feels about me, i have a feeling that she might be "leading me on" its hard to get a stright anwser from her, and all i want more then any thing is for her just to tell me how she truly feels about us and our relationship.
Now about the ring i would not mind at all if she kept the ring if we broke up, i bought it for her and its all hers.
Just DONT! "lead him on" any more, Tell him the truth!!! about how you feel and i think the ring is the least of both of your worrys.
2007-01-09 21:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by glen t 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont take the ring. dont let him continue to develop feelings for you. dont let the relationship go on. it hurts him a hell of a lot if he finds out no matter what, and thats life, but the recovery will only take longer if you lead him to believe you care about him mutually. take it from someone who is still not over TWO girlfriends over the last three years. its the worst thing you can do to him. the worst. even the slightest shred of doubt. maybe not the answer you'll pick as best, cuz it sucks, but its the right thing to do.
2007-01-09 21:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by Grant J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take the ring if you think he's not the one. You will hurt him more if you take the ring then end things. It's best that you don't take a step like that until you know how you truly love him.
2007-01-09 21:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think that you like someone, then u prolly do. Give the ring back to him, and break up with him. Be single and decide what you want in life...
2007-01-09 21:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by xo_mzbeck_ox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take the ring if u dont feel the same way about him . youll only be leading him on and hurting him more than ever in the end
2007-01-09 21:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by staceydv4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you really like someone else?
you should do some thinking, re-evaluate your relationship and figure out if it's still what you want.
sometimes, people in relationships tend to slip a little. you know, liking someone else or being attracted to another person, but if you really like what you have now with your boyfriend, you'll know.
it's really a bad sign when you think you like someone else, but do some, uh... "soul searching" then you'll know what to do.
2007-01-09 21:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by jedoneseventhree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well does the new guy like you ,,,,,if you are going to leave you boyfriend you will feel guilty as it is so if I was you I will give the ring back
2007-01-09 21:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by mean_bibi_ana 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are not ready for a serious commitment and you need time to think about it.
IS better for you to speak now than when you are married and then got a divorce because it wasn't love what you felt for him.
Good luck!
: o )
2007-01-09 21:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Return the ring and break loose.
If you're doubting already, you're probably right.
2007-01-09 21:06:15 · answer #10 · answered by hapynys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋