and i called the guy i liek confesed my love ............ in detail and i called him since then and he wont pick up and im sure its cause i freaked him out but i really want to make this work any advice?
2007-01-09 12:20:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Amateur mistake for calling him drunk and saying you love him. Obviously he's scared now!!
Leave it and see if he gets in touch. If not, then just move on and learn from your mistake.
2007-01-09 12:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by GypsyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you became the victim of a "drink and dial" situation - you got hammered, called this guy and confessed your true feelings for him (in a drunk incoherent way that either scared him off or made him sick or both)
You probably messed up any chance with this guy...
But don't beat up on yourself about that - EVERYBODY does that at least once! We've all done that - made calls while drunk and said stuff we deeply regretted when we were sober!
2007-01-09 20:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try drinking something else and call some other guy and see what happens! It might be the Jack or it might be the guys you call don't like drunks! But you won't know for sure till you suck down that shooter and use the network
2007-01-09 20:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by stonedpigeon1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some space. Don't call him for another week to see if he decides to call you.
Drunken calls + too many sober phone calls = scary.
Boys are easily frightened so give him some time to think and when you SEE him again try to smooth things over. If that takes to long leave him a quick appology on his machine (or cell) and then let it go untl he makes a move.
2007-01-09 20:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you were drunk and didn't know what you were doing. Write him a note or leave him a message so he doesn't think you're being crazy and trying to stalk him by calling him or following him around or anything. Say you like him but it's not like you have a shrine of him in your closet or anything (and if you do, lie)
2007-01-09 20:24:51 · answer #5 · answered by clashingtaco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call again and leave a messsge acting like you dont know what happend and explain you were drunk and if you've already done that make him feel bad and say something like you didnt think he was just like every other guy a worthless asshole or something, like something you know will get to him.
2007-01-09 20:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by breanna d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol "drunk dial" i made a couple of those and ruined it between me and girls. I said some funny stuff like things i want to do with them. One girl called me the next day and told me what i said it was so embarassing.
2007-01-09 20:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably won't happen. For one, he doesn't know if you meant it. never call people you're actually interested in, while drunk. The only chance is to see him in person and talk about it.
2007-01-09 20:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get drunk,but do apologize.It may not make any differences to him at all,but at least you can clear your contious.
2007-01-09 20:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this one is beyond rescue. Don't get drunk in future.
2007-01-09 20:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋