Look ppl, I am still grieving the death of my last boyfriend, I just ment a guy 4 days ago things got heated between us and before I knew it he was giving me oral sex. THen he wanted to have sex I said no but then he asked if he could just feel it,he rubbed his penis along my vagina but he NEVER pentrated me.
1)He hs been in jail for 6 years, I'm worried that I may have caught something from this,should I be?
2)He seemed so interested in me, but after 'sex' he changed, all he really did was give me oral and rub it near my vagina, he didn't even get off, do u think that was enuff for him to act as if he got what he wanted and 2 be so emotionally unattached?
3). Am I really so hard to love, all my boyfriends cheated, my family don't support my I have had to work every since I was old enuff to work. My family are moochers and the men who pretned to care don't really care.I have no friends.What can I do to make myself love me enuff to get overhaving no one in my life?
2007-01-09 12:14:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Didn't you ask this already? You really need to concentrate on yourself. You are in your prime and you should be the one out there struttin your stuff. Forget the men, stop trying to fall in love and stop letting jail birds rub they poopy d**k on ya cooch!!! Just enjoy life, its too short to be worried about why someone dont love you. If you don't have any friends, go get some!!! Love will come when it's time, and you don't seem like a b***h or nothin, so I don't see why you don't have friends, but make the most out of life. It is only what you make it!!!!!
2007-01-16 16:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by The One 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun you need to stop and breath
Now is the perfect time to cut all ties
The guy you had a fling with didnt care about you from the start... Some men (most not all) really do things like that. Trust me- ive learned the hard way.
To want someone to love you, love yourself first. Do something for you and you only. FLy solo for awhile..take up a hobbie. Give YOU sometime to clear your thoughts and process everything that is going on in this hectic world.
Im sure you a very intelectual, wonderful individual. Trust me... nothing good happens until you know how to support yourself first
2007-01-09 20:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself. You only knew him for FOUR days. I don't care if you're grieving... do you think your last boyfriend would like the idea of you doing that?
Find yourself some more respectable guys... maybe ones that aren't shoving their tongues in you by the fourth day they've known you.
Respect is a great place to start. And stop being so harsh on yourself! You're just looking for love in all the wrong places.
2007-01-09 20:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by Pyrai 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off No glove no love ... give yourself time learn to date yourself surround your self with love ,treat yourself to things u enjoy the right man will come along if u look too hard however u will find people like the jail bird u picked up
2007-01-09 20:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. deep stuff. my condolences to your ex. In terms of love, do you love you. If not, that goes along way s to why you seek love in others. From what you say it apears your family doesnt care for you either and so you are seeking love through men and bad men at that. I dont know if you are able to, but if you can you have to change your environment and get around postitive people who are doing positive things in their life. It will in turn make you a stronger and motivated person and allow others to notice the beauty in you and begin to love you as you said you desire. As for a man loving you there are more than enough good men who can do that, but you have to get your mind in better straights first.
2007-01-09 20:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect, and love yourself.
2007-01-09 20:35:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him do it! it will feel good
2007-01-16 13:05:59 · answer #7 · answered by marcus2hell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋