i have a boyfriend and a baby with him but hes not to good to me but great with my daughter and there is a guy at work that ive known for yrs. and im falling in love with hes the best guy for ne girl should i stay with boyfriend or no
2007-01-09 12:10:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Taxes ➔ United States
Your question is waaay off topic.
It would be better for you and your daughter if you quit looking to men to create your life.
You have not even legally committed to the father of your child, and now you are emotionally wandering off and thinking of cheating, or already at least emotionally cheating on him.
It is clear that your focus is not where it needs to be for your best interests, or those of your child.
1. Decide what you want for your life- a career?, schooling? training? financial stability for you and your child?
Find ways to acheive those things regardless of any men in your life.
2. Decide whether you love and want to make a life with the father of your child.
no?
If you decide "no", here, then what he wants does not matter.
Make plans to leave and not to go direct to another man. Make your own life. BE a good example for your child.
yes?
Get him to decide whether he wants to make a life with you.
If he decides "No",then what you want does not matter.
Go back to making plans to create your own life for yourself and your child.
Leave the other guy out of the mix.
If he is a quality person, and really wants a life with you and not just another notch on his belt with another guy's cheat- ready girlfriend, then he will be available when you have your own life together.
2007-01-09 12:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the father of your baby doesn't treat you well, you should consider leaving. This depends of course on what you mean by not treating you well. If it's just that he can't afford to buy you stuff you want, then think hard before you leave. If he's abusing you, then GET OUT.
2007-01-09 21:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by Judy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your baby should be your one and only priority now. You do not have time to fall in love with some guy who is NOT her father. See the big picture here, Mom.
2007-01-09 20:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do u love u rboyfriend??? if he dont treat u right u deserve to be with someone that loves u and knos how to treat a girl!!! i think u should do what ur haerts tells u to do!!
2007-01-09 20:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by selinamcnatt@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋