Confused about Boyfriend.?

Question

I know i love my boyfriend without a doubt. I dont know why latly i just want to be by myself. The last two days i just didnt want to talk to him so i didnt call him. He had called and asked why i didnt call and i told him that i just didnt want to talk. I havent wanted to see him either. We get along pretty good when were with eachother and everything is fine. i really dont know what all this confusion is a bout. i dont know if its because latly i been so insecure in the relationship or what. I used to be an easy going person but now i catch myself not being; and being really jealous. I think i can trust him but then sometime i think i don't. He just sometimes lie about dumb things so sometimes i wonder if he is cheating. I had heard from someone New Years he asked this other girl to have sex with him; The girl told me she didn't know if he was messing around or What. I don't know if im overeacting things or what. But imagine urself in this situation and know i cant just up and leave

Answer 1

You are in a very similar situation as I was, and still am going through. My fiance asked another girl to "be with him" but she turned him down knowing I was involved and we have a child together.
My fiance has always told me little petty lies that built up to big ones and I would usually catch on to them because sooner or later he'd change the story or it would just come out.
Recently I found out that my fiance had cheated on me with a girl whom I thought was my best friend, whom was our roommate for a few years.
In my heart I knew it was happening, but had no solid proof of it until finally after like three years, she finally told me after finding out that we were engaged. She wants my fiance for herself.
What you need to do is really do some soul searching, ask your boyfriend if he ever has and about that new year's deal, truly watch his expression and tone of voice, but most importantly, follow your gut instincts.
The only reason why I stayed with my fiance is because before finding out, he started to straighten some of his ways out and all, but don't get me wrong, the wedding is on hold right now just so that I can make sure that this will never happen again.
But I hope you make the right decision and if he is like how my fiance was, I would suggest to leave.
You know what is right and what you're worth, just take time and listen to what your heart says.

Answer 2

the most important thing to keep a relationship strong is communication. and communication can't occur if there isn't trust. trust cannot exist if there isn't honesty.
maybe you don't want to communicate with him because you don't trust him since he's been dishonest with you. doesn't matter what he's lying about, the fact is that he doesn't respect you enough to be truthful with you. it's almost worse since it is about stupid stuff (i know, my husband & i got into a HUGE row cuz he lied to me about something SOOOO stupid!)
you two need to be able to talk to each other openly & honestly, if you can't then your relationship isn't lasting

Answer 3

first talk 2 him face-face, bout all da situation dat have been happening, nd after dat tell u dont feel like u dont want 2 talk 2obody, by not telling him he will get mad at u nd yall gonna in a big fight ova sumthin stupid, so yea