i have a boyfriend but hes kind of buggin me and its getting annoying but he is soo in to me but i dont really like him that much. I like this other guy but i know hes not good and he has been with a lot of girls but i really think hes sincere this time. i could just go out with both cuz they dont know each other and the other guy doesntt go to my school but that seems unfair to my bf like i should break it off with him. what should i do???
2007-01-09 12:03:06 · 13 answers · asked by sharron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont cheat. If u didnt like the old one anyway, just break w/ him, and try something new, and if u start thinking that the new one isnt sencere, there aer plenty other guys. GL!
2007-01-09 12:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break it off with your current boyfriend since that's not working out. There is no reason to date somebody that you don't like, no matter how much he's in to you.
Secondly, ignore the other guy you like. Find someone else, someone new.
You thinking the second guy is sincere with you this time (and not with other girls) is incredibly vain, ignorant and idealistic. It's a form of cognitive dissonance that lets you believe this, combined with the specific psychology of attraction (and how that works). Having worked as a relationship counselor I will tell you that if you date the second guy you will be hurt, guaranteed.
Actions and behavior speaks louder than words and intentions, he will do to you exactly what he's always done to every girl. It's his very nature as denoted by his behavior.
But if you only want a brief fling from the second guy, then go for it.
2007-01-09 12:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mike K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question, if you don't like the BF you are with now, like you would tell any other person ! GET RID OF HIM!!! ,make yourself happy,. that's all that really matters is your happiness right?
In the end that is all that you should be thinking about being young, not having kids or a husband... all you have to think about right now is what makes you happy!
Would you not tell your best friend the same thing if she were in this situation?
2007-01-09 12:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Break up with your b/f
2. Date other guy
3. Get treated badly by this guy who proudly adds you to his list of girls fvcked and chucked
4. Come back and ask how you can get your b/f back
2007-01-09 12:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should break up with him. it's not fair to you or him that you have feelings for another guy, and your bf still thinks you like him. he may be sad at first but he will get over it and get on with life.
2007-01-09 12:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you flowed your heart before it's too late, why would you be with some one if you desire another one, it's not fair to you or the partner you i with presently just tell him, any way some one got to break it off if it's not met to be, this time you i the one going to be doing it, no? sound fair to me.
2007-01-09 12:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by celi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg maybe u should like get a damn life and grow up 2.. this sounds like u have a little problem of your own.so why say that 2 me!!!!! so rude!! try getting a little home-training in ya.. or RESPECT!!
gosh what a ***** u r!!
2007-01-09 12:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like the guy, break up with him! seems like that relationship needs to end if he's annoying and if you don't like him.
2007-01-09 12:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by Emily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and date the other guy if u like the other guy then go for it
2007-01-09 12:20:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the old bf and hook up with the new guy
2007-01-09 12:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by obnoxioustroll5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋