Me and bf got in to a agrument yesterday, He said he doesnt want to go thro this any more, and i asked what me and you he didnt answere that and he said it was up to me, well i told him i dont want to fight anymore and also started telling him that this isnt just my falt he stoped telling me and talking to me long before, and i dont no what to do, well we got in the house and i told him if you really want that ill move out by the end of the week so u wont have to "deal" with me anymore, he closed the door and gave me a hug and started to cry all he said was dont leave me,and to day he a apollogized and said if you do move out dont do it cuz ur mad, i want things to work out w/us , what should i do i love him we would be together 4 adout 2yrs this sat, we want to get marrired its just their too much strees what is their to do, what would you do? i need other peoples opinions!
2007-01-09 12:01:02 · 9 answers · asked by CANDY 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What would I do?
Marry him.
And take it from me, if there is too much stress already, ELOPE.
I did it, and it saved so much pain and heartache and voila, we were married, you know? =)
I send you hugs.
2007-01-09 12:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by imtheriddling1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I COMPLETLE Y understand hun. However ive only been with mine for a year... but i do live with him and have encountered the same issue (marraige and all)
If you want it to work; the both of you need to talk out your problems, and be more patient with each other.
The three things that will ruin a relationship/marraige is:
1). Intimacy
2). Communication
3) Finances
I swear on everything i know that this is true. It is obvious that your bf loves you and you love him to. This is going to be another hill (issue) that the both of you will have to encounter and get over. Because if you intent to marry, this issue will only become a milstone.
The both of you need to discuss where you are in the relationship and where you want it to go.
Good luck
KC
2007-01-09 20:08:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you move out soes not mean that you have to break up. Just move and and tell him that you are not breaking up, you just need some space for awhile. If he loves you, he will understand and will expedite things to get married. When and if you get married, things will feel more secure. Besides, why would he want to marry you if he has you living with him already?
2007-01-09 20:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Cas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your spending too much time together so i think you should get an apartment on your own for a while but not break up just not living together and just see each other on weekends or when your not working or busy but not too often and you will get closer that way, b/c its just your getting tired of each other now and thats not a good sign.
2007-01-09 20:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by breanna d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first have lots of comunication... sit and talk about the problem... if you think you guys will get out of contol (yelling) just go to a public place like star bucks ..park..some where u can get air...he love you dont get him wrong cause he apollogized..you just have to talk not arguee..good luck..
2007-01-09 20:12:00 · answer #5 · answered by chikita 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all if yall keep fightin take mariage away from ur conversation, talk 2 each other why yall fightin 2 much,like dis saturday make a special dinner for ur 2yrs.anniversary, make it special nd dat yall will forget da fights nd crap
2007-01-09 20:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by personaltiyqueen92 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's pushing you away and if he's telling you that the fate of your relationship is up to you then more than likely he's feeling unwanted or unappreciated. He just wants to know he's wanted.
2007-01-09 20:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by Tasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay i gusse. or u could stay togther or take a break
2007-01-09 20:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by mbjack0407 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay with him, it sounds like he relly loves you!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-09 20:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋