Lately things with my boyfriend have sorta started to cool down. Before he texted me every day, would call me and always want to talk to me and more recently... nothing. We went out the other night and it was nice but I didn't feel that he was into it... but he was just getting over the flu... Has he lost intrest in me?
2007-01-09 11:54:36 · 12 answers · asked by Yvee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Back off. Give him space. Don't call him or text him and if he calls or texts you, wait a few hours before responding. He needs some time perhaps. Guys do that it seems. They are hot and heavy and then having cooling off periods. I wouldn't worry about it. Just give him some time. I bet he'll come around.
2007-01-09 11:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Outside of the flu, did it ever occur to you that he may be giving you your space. Did it oocur to you that he might not want to smother you as that may drive you away from him? I wouldnt want someone calling everyday and texting every five minutes. I dont think he's lost interest in you, he's just giving you space. Now if he takes 5 and doesnt call you for weeks thats different, otherwise he's just giving you your space.
2007-01-09 20:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by Wheres the Rum Gone? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There could be many reasons arising to these actions, but actions do tell us signs of our r/s. Men and women think differently, in the sense that sometimes during thinking, men tend to hide in their cave and sort out for answers but for Women, they tend to open up and talk about it and hope for someone to listen to them. But all these are general guidelines and for us to examine.
In conclusion, I believe in communicating. Maybe during these period of time, he has been tied up with certain agendas or work-stress that he's unable to give you the time and appreciation. Maybe you should start the ball kicking and do your actions of calling him or texting him.
But unfortunately, some men needs a knock on his head... Haha... Maybe you should just ask him and see if there's anything he can share with you? Afterall, a relationship is about sharing...
Make him understand the importance of sharing and how important he meant to you...
2007-01-09 20:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well check if he's talking to other girls, cuz usually for a guy to stop giving you his time it means somthing is up... Flu or no Flu if he loves u enough he will make the time to show you he cares and love you...
2007-01-09 20:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by Rain L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he lost interest in you its just hes not used to being back w/ u since you had the flu, just try to make more plans with him itll help a lot and itl get things better but if you guys just5 have no connection between you two break up with him itll help in the longrun but just try communicating more
2007-01-09 19:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is think in bout somebodi else try askin him wats wrong with him and c if u can do anythin 2 help if he is actin like that maybe sumethin else is on his mind maybe somethin happened in the family but u wont really know till u ask him!!!:)
2007-01-09 19:59:49 · answer #6 · answered by Chris breezy and Ashanti 4 eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was getting over the flu...why wasn't you more attentive to him instead?
2007-01-09 19:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's more comfortable with you and doesnt feel the need to call you so much because he knows you both love eachother very much.
2007-01-09 19:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right, obviously something has happened or changed in his mood and feelings toward you, bad news i know but just ask him straight up
2007-01-09 19:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by J. K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test him by not contacting him for a while, if he's still interested he'll contact you.
2007-01-09 19:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by getfit chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋