I've known my friend for a few years, but really started to get close to her this year, I have a huge crush on her, how do I tell her how I feel without risking our friendship, or totally freaking her out
2007-01-09 11:35:43 · 7 answers · asked by Jimmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm kinda shy and she knows that, and the email/text thing is just the kind of thing she'd expect Id like to do it face to face or on the phone
2007-01-09 11:44:26 · update #1
My best guy friend just told me the same thing bascially. It hasn't changed our friendship. If you guys are really good friends it wont change ur friendship. U can tell her, and if she isn't interested then say thats cool/fine/whatever. But you never know--- she may be interested. But after the convo be sure to still act the same. it will be fine and you guys can try dating, but under the premise that if either of you aren't feeling it anymore, that you jsut be honest with each other.
Good luck!!
2007-01-09 11:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by Heart of Gold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 13:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know first by showing her you like her, you know by flirting, and making her laugh, all that stuff. Then eventually after awhile your friend should get the point, and by the time you tell her she shouldn't be so surprised.
2007-01-09 11:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a e-mail or text telling her and say if you're not cool with it pretend you never got it. Then take it from there.
2007-01-09 11:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Mah10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. ask her if she what she looks for in a man. ask her if she thinks you are all of the above then tell her how you feel.
2007-01-09 11:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Suu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE HONEST AND TRUTHFUL WITH HER ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS FOR HER!!! GET IT OUT IN THE OPEN AND LET HER DEAL WITH IT!!! ITS NOT YOUR PROBLEM ITS HERS!!!
2007-01-09 11:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel! maybe sshe likes u too!
2007-01-09 11:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥Jade♥~ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋