I have this new cowoker..for two month, I have big time crush on her, i AKSED her twice for date (she is single) but she refussed/rejected me..
As you know how strong you are rejection always hurt,, but worse thing is she is so flirt,, she flirt with every body at work (off course except me).. she sit in different cabin, but she come often to my cabin and flirts for long time with another married coworker(who sit next to me).. SO I fell so bad each day, jeliousy, rejections..it hurt bad..
what you do in this matter... should i quite job,, everyday she come and flirts around,, the wound get fresher and fresher
2007-01-09 11:35:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't quit your job over it. I know its hard, but it will get easier and plus, I'd start asking myself why she is being so cruel to you. Why would a woman flirt in front of a man she knows has feelings for her in the first place?
2007-01-09 11:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by morgan_ayn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she going to pay your bills? No. So, I certainly would not let her chase me away from my job. The reason she flirts with the married guy and not you because he is a safe flirt (already taken) and you are not. I am sure she thoroughly enjoys the attention she gets from all of you guys. You really only want what you can't have - her. If you had her she would not be that same carefree flirt that you see her as. I suggest you totally ignore her. Stop looking at her as a dog in heat. She knows you like her already. Maybe when you stop being so available you will spark her interest more. How about send yourself flowers to work from a secret admirer, believe me she will hear about it and wonder who it is from.
2007-01-09 11:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give a lot of thought about this person's attitude. Look at her actions. She is not worth the hurt you're going through. If she flirts with everyone except you, be thankful she doesn't flirt with you. It sounds like she's a shallow person to me and you don't need that. You deserve better. When she comes into your space and starts flirting with your co-worker, would it be possible for you to just get up and leave for a few minutes?
2007-01-09 11:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to go out with someone who flirts with everyone? You should be glad that she is looking the other way because you don't know what you are getting yourself into. You might be hurting now but it would be much worse if she went out with you and then started flirting with everyone. Go out and find a woman with self respect.
2007-01-09 11:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 13:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like she's into guys she cant have, try making yourself less available. OR dont pay her any attention, she might be the type that likes to flaunt her stuff around. Think about it do u really wanna be with someone who is that big of a flirt?
2007-01-09 11:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T QUIT!! She might be trying to get your attention by flirting with people. Just try not to pay attention to her if shekeeps rejecting you when you ask her out. Don't worry about it. She knows you like her and she's trying to see how far you go to show her you like her. Don't quit your job for some girl who playing games with yo mind as well as yo heart. she's acting like a hoe!!
2007-01-09 11:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont quit
yes ive been their ( about getting rejected ) but if u quit now, she'll think that ur weak.
maybe shes just playing hard to get.
yeah flirt a lit bit but sumtimes u gotta be serious.
2007-01-09 11:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by woah! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she shouldnt flirt with the guy thats married. dont quit. tell her that makes u feel uncofterbal and stuff. or see if u could move around the office or something
2007-01-09 11:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by mbjack0407 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unrequited love is not a good thing. To deal with your problem I would say to communicate with her. Tell her that you find it difficult to deal with her flirting and that you would appreciate it if she would stop flirting with you. If she doesn't stop, you have a problem that you may want to talk to your boss about.
2007-01-09 11:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋