2007-01-09 11:28:06 · 16 answers · asked by igotsmartz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Q: 'Is sex really that great?'
Yes, and no.
Yes, if it's with the right person. But you have to be damn sure, and damn lucky, for this to be the case. Since you have no experience, it's probably hard for you to be able to tell if a person is likely to be the 'right' or 'wrong' person, though most potentials will surely give you a hint you can understand.
No, if it's with the wrong person. A wrong person is basically anyone who wants sex for reasons that are not the same as your reasons. If you want sex for the sake of having sex, then find someone else who wants it for that reason. If you want sex with someone because you want to give yourself to them fully, find yourself someone who wants, and I mean someone who really does want to give themself to you, fully.
Either way, trust your instinct. Chances are, it won't let you down. If it feels right, it probably is. and if it feels wrong, you can bet your butt that it is wrong, too.
Q: 'Is waiting really worth my time?'
If you want to give yourself to a person who loves you, then yes. It can be incredibly profound and emotionally satisfying to give the gift of 'first' to someone who you know will appreciate it. And honestly, the kind of guy that will appreciate that gift is the kind of guy that will let you give it _when you are ready_, and not a moment before.
If a guy's pressuring you, then my advice, as a guy, is to give him the flick. He's just a user who wants to add you to his list of conquered girls, and is not worth even a moment of your time.
Hope this helps. :-)
2007-01-09 11:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by ♂ « Hybrid » ♀ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is great when you are with the person you know you are going to spend the rest of your life with. Yes waiting is worth your time, I mean really, do you want to give that part of youself just to anyone. I hope not. Sex is way over rated in our society these days i think. So I hope you choose to wait untill you find the one you will marry.
Peace to you
2007-01-09 11:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by rj j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sex can be wonderful and magical but only if you wait until it is with the person you are married to and plan to spend your life with. Don't give it up just for the sake of saying you have had sex. Sex without love, commitment, emotions and marriage isn't worth having.
2007-01-09 11:33:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sally B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean in a ay yes sex is great .but it depend too like if u think this person is definetly the one u were dreaming about yes it will be the greatest thing ever. and wait might not be worth cause no one will married u without sex b4 that. (wait is also god but don't wait to long 'cause u might loose him or her) goood luck!
2007-01-09 11:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by THIMOTE A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally I think when you love someone its great. Your not as nervous and you can let go and get into it after that first time. If you just pick a random guy its always bad cause he doesnt know what you like and its always awkward. I would wait if I was you its definatley worth it
2007-01-09 11:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by Catie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is great with the right person. It is not with the wrong person. Definitely wait. Once you have sex you can't take it back or return it.
2007-01-09 11:35:12 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex without love is basically sex. My first changed into an pretty tremendous guy, we both somewhat beloved one yet another, yet shall we not in any respect be mutually for countless causes and we both knew it. It changed into exciting, type of romantic, and basically an recommendations-blowing journey. however it changed into basically sex. Like, we would have lengthy previous on a picnic and felt better bonded. So it is not something to be apologetic about yet once you anticipate something spectacular you received't get it outdoors of a relationship. in case you want your first time to be particular then it will be. yet in case you want it to propose something, you should attend till you're married for my section (or at that element on your head). in spite of you opt for, not in any respect do exactly IT because you've worked up the nerve. imagine about what you're doing, it is your body and proposals. Then once you're particular, you received't be apologetic about it, even if it is incredible or bland.
2016-12-02 01:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is worth your time, but, judging by your question, you're not old enough to indulge. Wait a few more years.
2007-01-09 11:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by bellegurl17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is really great if it is with the right person.. wait for him and it will be even better:^)
2007-01-09 11:32:52 · answer #9 · answered by maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im waitin till marriage. Its all upto u. I mean im here bein the nice guy and i cant get a gal coz im not thinkin of bangin them. Its all upto u if u wanna wait.
2007-01-09 11:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋