Hello so this is whats going on for the past two years about ive liked a guy who doesnt like me. And by the end of this year he will be graduating and will probibly bee out of my life for good.
wee used to hang out but then i found it to akward to bee hanging out with him after telling him how i felt for him and having him tell me he didnt have feelings like that for me, wee still talk sometimes but not lately and we say hi sometimes. he hangs out in the same group of friends as mee and it gets very hard to forget or get over him when hes always around. i know this is not some kind of illustion i have of him that it must just bee "another crush" or just "somthing all get over" its become more then that
and seeing how truely diffrent he is from most guys and people makes mee like him more all the time. like how hes only kissed a very few amount of girls not because hes ugly or cant have them but because he is so selective about whos hes with and will not settle. i need advise pls !!!
2007-01-09 10:18:22 · 9 answers · asked by darkeyerings270 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you need to learn how to spell properly. It's not "wee" or "bee".
Just forget about him, since he's so selective and picky. He doesn't like you. Get over it.
2007-01-09 10:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You asked for an unique answer, right. Write him a letter, put down everything you feel about him, how he makes you feel, how you think about him, why you think about him, what he brings to your life when you are around him, what you don't like or hate about him, how you felt after you told him you liked him and how you felt by his reaction. How you feel each time you see him around the school, how you react each time you see him around. Do the before and after affects. Do not edit. Do it when it is quiet and no one to bother you. You may have to do it in a couple sittings. I would expect that you might have a couple pages or more. And do this in long hand. Not on a computer, though you could. When you are done. Then read the letter to yourself. Make sure you have said everything good and bad about him. If there is more to write, then do so. Then re-read the letter. After re-reading the letter. Now, how do you feel about this guy?
Send the letter? No, there will probably be no reason to. Just rip it up and go on with life. There will be so many more guys in your life soon. And your taste in men may change.
Good luck
2007-01-09 10:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by gbdelta1954 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. Unrequited love is really hard to deal with; especially if you're always around the other person. First of all, you have to tell yourself, "He said no, and I shouldn't push it" As soon as you understand that he doesn't want to go out with you; you have to get things straight with him. Privately talk to him and tell him that you feel that things are really awkward between you two and you would like it if you two could go back to being friends like you used to be. Remember, you gave him the choice and he didn't accept; so now it's time to move on. This is going to be hard, and it's going to hurt, too; believe me I'm [unfortunately] going through the exact same thing. You can't forget him, you probably never will, but you have to understand that he doesn't want to go out with you. It would be better to have a platonic relationship rather than pining every single second of your day for a person who just doesn't feel the same way. If he asks if you still feel that way about him; tell him the truth. But also say that you don't want to make him uncomfortable and you understand that he doesn't want to go out with you.
I hope it works out and you two can find a way to stay friends!
2007-01-09 10:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you can't make someone feel something they don't. If he doesn't like you back, then you need to move on. Don't let your heart be trampled by someone who doesn't care. You have to love smart. You can control who you give your heart to. Make sure it is someone who values it. If he doesn't like you, then he doesn't like you... move on. There are a lot of wonderful guys in the world... he's not the only one.
Probably when he graduates it will be easier for you. A little distance will help you get over him. But whatever you do... don't keep throwing yourself at him. You are too precious to grovel. Whoever deserves you won't make you grovel.
Take heart! Be strong! You will survive! (as the song goes)! Listen to that song - it is great!
2007-01-09 10:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to break it to you, but you have fallen in love with an idea, not a person. You assume this is different and he is special because that's what you want him to be. Please consider this and think about it, it's a mistake we girls often make. For example, you say he's so different from other guys because he hasn't kissed a lot of girls. Why are you blowing his trumpet, he told you he doesn't like you? There is someone out there better for you. You think you won't get over him but trust me, when you're a little older, you'll wonder what you were thinking.
2007-01-09 10:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Vena cava 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when I had a funeral for a bee. i changed into walking to college in first grade with my ideal chum. Yeah, decrease back then, contained in the former days, that changed into ok. We chanced in this lifeless bee and we were an hour late for college because of the ceremony! are you able to imagine 2 first grade females unaccounted for for one hour lately?
2016-12-02 01:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by saylors 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel again, and tell him that you tried but just cant get over him, and that you just want one date, and wanna see where it goes from there. Go to the movies or something and win him over. :D
2007-01-09 10:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just talk on the phone and email
2007-01-09 10:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋