ok so me an dmy girlfriend have been together almost fiur month's now and she's a freshman and im a senior..but i dont have any classses this semster so i dont go to school i just take her to school and drop her off and pick her up but the real problem is that she just doesnt show any affection anymore to me like she used to when i still went to school and all she every want's is for me to give her my tip money to buy her stuff but when i do she is happy but when i dont she get's mad so im wondering is she just using me for money and trying to find another guy at school cuz she is real flirty with other guys so what do i do??????????
2007-01-09 10:17:12 · 14 answers · asked by scott 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is just using u for money, remember love is unconditional, specialy when it comes to money issues, she doesnt really love u, if she does she'll b more than happy just to see u, and what u're doing to her is so special, u seem to treat her very well, she shoud've appreciate that. just leave her. u deserve better. i know it's not easy but it's better for u. good luck.
2007-01-09 10:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by anabella 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she is just using you. She may care about you, but she isn't showing it. Have you told her how you feel? Because she may not realize how this is making you feel. Also, she shouldn't expect you to buy her stuff with your money. Once in a while is ok, but not all the time. You need to speek to her, if she doesn't change her ways you should get rid of her.
2007-01-09 18:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by jelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very obvious she's using you. come on she's always expecting you to buy her stuff. and she's flirty! i wouldn't stick around for that. you're being so nice to her and she doesnt appreciate u. you dont go to school anymore but yet you take her and pick her up from school. what a sweetheart. you should just let her walk. and move on. sad to say ....sounds like your more into her than she is.
2007-01-09 18:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by sexy-cecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. But it sounds like she is using you for a ride and money. Dump her before you get your heart broken. Sounds like she is just looking for someone to fill your spot. Besides, im sure you would have much more fun with someone your own age.
2007-01-09 18:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Amberlee :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt feel attracted to you anymore, you re just her provider.
Dump her and learn something from nature, most male animals are not providers but protectors. Lions dont hunt, but lionesses. They just protect the pack from others.
Stop giving things to girls to gain appreciation.
They must love you for who you are not what you give, so keep gifts and services low. (drop he and pick her up at school...what does she thinks you are? his dad?)
2007-01-09 18:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it, but you are being used!!!
Don't let her anymore! Stop driving her to school, let her ride the bus!(Boy, I bet she would really start appreciating you more then)! & Stop giving her your hard earned money!
If you really want to give your money away, then please find a better charity!!!!
You deserve better, & a savings account!
2007-01-09 18:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably found another sucker at school a long time ago. Yes, she's using you. Stop letting her.
2007-01-09 18:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront her. tell her how your feeling, and if worst comes to worst break up with her. just go with what you feel is right
2007-01-09 18:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by blueshmugirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes usin u man
2007-01-09 18:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by rabdcow72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. You deserve better!
2007-01-09 18:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋