My boyfriend of four years is totally serious about me sleeping with another woman for his pleasure. I was just wondering if it is a common thing for boyfriends to request this, not just fantasise about it?
2007-01-09 10:12:25 · 33 answers · asked by xxx sara xxx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Holy cow!.. Mine is the same way I think it is like a fetish or something for them.. Idk nor do I get why the obsession.. Well if you do decide to go and do that then Make sure it is something you want to experience as well. If not you need to tell him to just chill is not going to happen and maybe get a video with some girl on girl action for him.. best of luck I hope it works out
2007-01-09 10:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my husband never have asked me about anything like that, nor any man I was involved with before him....
But I think what your boyfriend wants is a common fantasy for many men, but yours is brave enough to talk to you about it, and I think you should be happy for him to be so honest with you...
However, if you think that idea is totally crazy (as I do) just say it, don't get involved in a situation that you could later regret. If he is the man for you, he will understand, and be happy with no more that watching movies...
Good luck!
2007-01-09 10:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What about your pleasure? I always think that if a man truly loved u he wouldn`t want to share u...but then I am pretty old fashioned. Just don`t be doing anything that u are not comfortable with.
2007-01-09 10:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by Delilah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More common now days if a man ask you to do something as nasty as that he has no respect for you none I have heard a lot of women say the same thing does not make it right
2007-01-09 10:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you're too keen on the idea. If the idea make you uncomfortable, don't do it. It could definitely lead to problems later in your relationship.
It's a common fantasy, but quite often it should be left at just that, a fantasy.
2007-01-09 10:18:03 · answer #5 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, not outside dirty bedroom talk anyway!
He actually gets insecure at times that I have close lesbian friends!
If he is willing to share you with someone else (whatever sex they are) I doubt he has as much love and respect for you as he ought to.
I know this probably isn't what you want to hear but I'm being honest with you!
2007-01-09 10:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Poppy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 11:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, just let him know, that you might like it better than him and will not go back. And in turn, you want him to sleep with another guy for your own pleasure. See how he likes that one.
2007-01-09 10:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by Chazz Drizzler 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, my boyfriend seems totally obsessed with sleeping with another woman - any other, less furry woman, in fact....
2007-01-09 10:15:19 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Behavin 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I never asked my girlfriend (now wife) to sleep with another woman. I think your boyfriend just has a fixation.
2007-01-09 10:15:56 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋