I am a guy who loves guys but not for sex though. I like to watch them and talk to them. Sometimes I think maybe I need their support or I don't know. I just don't know how to get alongor control this feeling. Also I don't know how to act like a real man or what is a real man. could some one tell me how to find myself considering this fact that I'm not a gay but I can't react very masculine as well. Please help . I have to add that I really like to find male frinds but becasue of this feeling that I have I can't. First things comes to my mind is to picturing him naked.
2007-01-09 09:48:38 · 4 answers · asked by Peter P 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
There's no such thing as one kind of "real man." There are thousands of ways to be a good person or bad person and anything in between.
It sounds to me like you're having homosexual or bisexual thoughts and urges but you're trying to suppress them since they don't match your preconcieved (and erroneous) definition of "a real man," and now you're just confused.
2007-01-09 10:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by rinkrat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow dude I had an fairly comparable subject with my terrific pal, yet I have been given kinda fearful of what issues might carry approximately and we began starting to be aside, besides he could be BI CURIOS, no longer completely gay or bi. Hes purely slightly of curios. And to be user-friendly me and my ex Bestfriend stated alot of non-public stuff, even approximately one yet another length. He not at all sent me any %. yet like I mentioned we merely grew aside. If u particularly need my opnion, then ask him. Im speaking from own expiriance because of the fact it sucks dropping a pal over something like this. If u ask him, kudos to you because of the fact u had the braveness i not at all had lol BTW i nonetheless confer with him when you consider that we the two on my higschool swimteam and its particularly awkward that all of us comprehend plenty approximately one yet another and weren't even pals anymore. playstation have been the two sixteen too
2016-11-28 00:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're freaking GAY! By means you like boys and girls!
2007-01-09 09:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by jessie.issoawesome 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are probably gay. when u masturbate if you fantasize about girls, you are heterosexual, if u fantasize about boys, when u masturbate, you are gay. if u fantasize about both boys and girls you are bi sexual
2007-01-09 10:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by zeek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋