Whats the wait time on calling a girl after your left a message telling her to call you. I went out with a girl on Friday we had a good time. I called her on Sunday and her phone was off. I called her on Monday night and left and message for her to call me back. It was kind of late monday near 10 p.m Should I play the game, where I don't act like that interested and call her on Thursday. Or should I just call her today or tommorrow because we really did have a good time and she definantly seemed interested in me. Just curious and bored.
2007-01-09 09:46:40 · 19 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you haven't really given her a chance to call you back yet.
I would say give her a chance to call you first. You can try to reach her at a more reasonable hour, but don't leave another message if you don't get her. If you're going to call again, it would be a good idea to have something specific and time-sensitive in mind: eg, there is some event going on or band playing in the next couple days (or you need to get tickets in the next couple days), and you were trying to catch her and see if she wanted to go. In that case you could leave one more message specific to that.
If you can't reach her by phone after another call or two, stop calling. She may be intentionally not picking up. Instead try to run into her "accidentally" and see if she seems responsive at all in person. If not, take the hint and save your dignity.
2007-01-09 09:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by EQ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
K, well you left the message saying call and she hasnt in the last 24 hours. Lets give her the benefit of the doubt that she is very busy. If she doesnt call by tommorrow night, then give her one last short call. If she doesnt answer just leave the message of, "just letting you know i had a good time, hope all is going well, call me later if you want to do something" and leave it at that and give it time. If she never calls you know where she stands. If she's just busy, she will call. Good luck.
2007-01-09 09:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by kt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can call her at any time.
However, if you don't want to be a "chump"... you should be prepared that she may not be interested, and might not take you call.
You should be prepared to leave the following message...
"Hi (Anne) this is Bob. I had a great time on Friday, and wanted to speak to you. I left you a message, but you didn't call me back.
I just want you to know that I hope that I hear back from you. But, just in case you aren't interested, I wont call you back until I hear from you."
[then NEVER NEVER NEVER call her back, unless she calls you... that includes ALL circumstances.. dog dying, saving her from evil goonies, etc. there will NEVER be a reason to call her, if she does not call you back]
2007-01-09 09:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've called twice, you only get to call one more time before officially becoming creepy. If she also had a good time, she would have returned your call by now. Maybe she met someone else, or got together with an ex and feels bad. Call her tomorrow, and leave one last message. Then delete her number and start looking for someone else.
2007-01-09 09:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking, girls don't like it when guys play hard to get. How long you wait really depends on how desperate you are and how much you care about her. I think you should just call her and hope for the best. If she sees that you keep calling her all the time she will realize how much you care which is always a good thing. Good luck.
2007-01-09 09:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't like to use phones anymore, too impersonal.
I just answered the doorbell and a woman was working for Mass pirg, My sister did that. I gave her like $5 in change. Next time it will be girlscouts or something. Maybe I'll stop answering the door too.
2007-01-09 09:51:48 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have made your move dont call her again until she calls you back.... or you talk someother way.. you can try running into her somewhere and talking to her then... never ever make calling someone your first contact with them after telling them to call you.. you could always send her a email but dont bring up her calling or you calling talk about something else.... if she is interested she will call.. leave her some sapce dont look clingy... remember it was one date. you allready let her know your interested.. now let her decide where she wants to go from here...
2007-01-09 09:52:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, answer to the 1st area; of direction you call her dude!! lmao have confidence me, im a woman, and its spectacular whilst the guy calls you first. and for the 2d area; properly if she likes to bypass to events, perchance take her to a club or something. and till now she leaves, do something that shows you like her. because of the fact properly, of course she likes you. could as properly permit her go away with a sprint happiness ;]
2016-10-06 21:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a day or two to call back, it is simple if she is interested she will call you back unless some freak accident, dont start to blow her up cuz then you look desperate or like you have no one else to call, whatever you do do not drunk dial her at all this week cuz that will ruin it
2007-01-09 09:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by streetz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to call you back. Trust me. If she likes you, she will definitely want to talk to you, so she'll call you back. It may take her a while, but be patient. If she doesn't call back, she's not into you.
2007-01-09 09:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋