my friends boyfriend works in a bar, one of the girls that works with him has told people that when they were closing up one night they had a few drinks and ended up kissing.
What i want to know is should i tell my friend what i heard or should i talk to her boyfriend and ask him about it.
They have been going together 2 years, and it would break her heart if it is true
2007-01-09 09:46:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say that it would break her heart if it is true, well no matter if you tell her or not does not change the fact that it may be true so.....tell her and she can find out if it is or not. But that is your duty as a friend and I am sure you would want her to tell you. Right?
2007-01-09 09:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by Pdoodles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should do what you feel is right. Even though you mite end up in the middle of something you really dont want to be in. take it from me. Been there done that. It is a choice you have to make. Think hard and long before you open your mouth. For every action you get a reaction!!!!!!! Step back and look at the big picture before you do anything. Also...kissing is not really cheating. And they are not married. This is all part of life and desiding who you want to be with.
Take care.
2007-01-09 09:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by ccrider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would confront the source and the boyfriend, maybe try to get the boyfriend to tell the girlfriend first so it comes from his mouth at least if it's true.
2007-01-09 09:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, and see if he is still kissing the other woman, beer can make anyone do anything. But if he continues, its confirmed cheating, he need to stop drinking so he doesn't make that mistake, or get caught drunk making that mistake.
2007-01-09 09:51:49 · answer #4 · answered by chaznc_28607 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her. you two are best friends and you shouldn't want her to hear it from someone else and let her get her heart broken that way. ask her boyfriend about it first because you don't know if it's true or not. even if he says its not true you need to let her know that you heard it becuase you don't know who else has heard this.
2007-01-09 09:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would leave it up to her to find out. You don't want to put yourself into the middle of a situation like that. I would stay out of it. Just be there to support her if and when she does find out.
2007-01-09 09:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Venus Mantrap 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl who said it to begin with.. This is how rumors get started. Someone said, someone else said... blah blah blah... GO TO THE SOURCE!
2007-01-09 09:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would hurt her more if she found out you new and did not tell her, it may be hard but I know you would want to know if you where her.
2007-01-09 09:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have knowledge that this is the case you should really butt out.
2007-01-09 09:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellll... it's really none of your business, and if you tell her you run the risk of her getting mad at you , after they get back together.
the schultz (hogans heroes) attitude; i know nothing ; is a good one to cultivate sometimes.
2007-01-09 09:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by geezer 51 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋