In the beginning stages of a relationship, what are some good questions I could ask to find out who she is inside? I have been brain storming but I am just wonder what are some good questions to ask a lady that would provide me some insight to who she is.
Your answers and help are very much appreciated!
2007-01-09 09:43:57 · 15 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i have always thought you learn sooo much by listening lets see here are some questions?
did you like where you grew up?
how often do you talk to your family?
where is your fav. place to be?
who do you think your most like?
whats your fav. food?
do you get where i am going here, all these questions will leed to conversation and thats when the listening comes in to play. if your lucky she will develop on the things you ask her, see where it goes if she really opens up then you can start with personal questions keep it pretty benign in the beginning like job, family, food, sports and then you can move from there women love it when they are asked questions and the guy is truly interested in the answer. listen intently don't be looking away when she is giving answers this is your time to see if you could really care for her.
2007-01-09 09:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by pa625 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I am a dude. But I have never had any problems with conversation with women at all.
Listening in the start of a relationship is key. You also want to make sure you are not only asking, but the conversation is back and forth. Which is also a good sign she is interested in you.
Start out asking questions you would want to be asked. From there make them more specific and if you guys mesh, the conversations should have less and less questions.
Be yourself, ask things that you are interested in, which hopefully she is interested in. Also, if she is the kind of person (hopefully you as well) you can enter into the deeper stuff and if you have different views, debate about it. Woman love trying to prove they are right about things, even more than us guys.
STAY AWAY FROM ASKING ABOUT HER PAST RELATIONSHIPS, it isn't important at all.
NEVER ASK A WOMAN IF SHE LIKES YOU!
Good luck man.
2007-01-09 09:54:28 · answer #2 · answered by yourlordandsavoirjesushchrist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say that all women will put on a front when they first meet ANYBODY. It really is just normal to try to be the best you can be so you get a good first impression.
My tip? Watch how they treat people when you aren't around. Example: When you leave her at a table and go to the restroom, on your way back watch how she talks to people. Is she snobby? Does she smile at people? Does she say excuse me or does she just expect people to move for her? This never fails. If she treats people rudely then she is probably rude all the time.
2007-01-09 09:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn62082 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking any question about her life in general. What kinds of classes she is taking. Where she would like to see herself in a few years? Questions about her family are always a double bonus.
2007-01-09 09:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by matillda2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are her long term goals? What does she want out of life? Does she wish she could change anything from her past? What annoys her the most?
I would stay away from the really personal questions this early on like "Do you want to get married?" or "Do you want to have kids?"...don't make her think you are rushing into anything or freak her out...
2007-01-09 09:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask about family, her car, her job, what she is majoring in in school, her hobbies (shopping, I bet)... little things that seem boring to you, but makes a girl happy that you want to know.
Don't go too deep, though... don't ask, like, "what do you want out of life?" You might as well ask when she wants to get married and how many kids she wants.
2007-01-09 09:48:50 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Princess♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think asking her how she likes to spend her free time is a good question. Ask her what some of her favorite movies and songs are. Ask her what some of her happiest times have been and ask her what some of her worst times have been.
2007-01-09 09:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Hopeful girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her about where she grew up, her family, etc. and if that's a bad subject for her, then ask her what, as a child, she wanted to be when she grew up and why, and then if she fulfilled that dream and how she did it. What kind of music she listens to, what her favorite sports/hobbies are, what kinds of books she likes to read, etc.
2007-01-09 09:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by Traveler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 21:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does she want out of life and why? It is always good to know what her passions are in life. They usually stem back to her as a younger kid and dreams she had. This will tell you so much about who she is.
2007-01-09 09:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by kt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋