I have a man that i love dearly and we have lived together for 1 year but our sex life is crapy as he**, he is a great guy and I love him. I just got divorced 11/15/06 i am trying to treat my new man good but it's hard sometime I can say that I love him But in love is another subject.. I need some advice on what to do? Should i try and wotk it out or let him go so that he can find a woman who can treat him the way he deserves to be treated
2007-01-09 09:40:30 · 8 answers · asked by Mz.G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stressed it is more than natural for all relationships to go through highs and lows as far as sex goes. The important thing is that you are each honest with each other and are able to communicate all your innermost feelings in an open and honest manner. As far as being uncertain if you are In Love with your man, perhaps you need to do some soul searching and see if indeed he is capable of truly giving you and you he the respect and love that each deserves If you are uncertain but want to save this relationship then you and he may need to go and see either a sex therapist, couples counselor etc. in order to have an objective third party try and rekindle the romance that must have been there when you first met. If possible you may even want to consider going away for a weekend together at a nice hotel or resort. Best of luck in all lives journeys but especially in this matter of the heart.
2007-01-09 09:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off i know from experience if your not really truley in love the sex wont be the best....you have already lived with him for a yr i know ya do love him as u stated but if your not in love with him your just hurting both you and him so i would just end it for a while and see if he is really truley what you want and if it is then when the time comes the sex will be better otherwise you both will find someone you truley love with all your heart and are in love with Best Of luck in whatever you choose
2007-01-09 09:47:02 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~*~JeSs~*~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might love him, but it surely does not sound as though he loves you...until his definition of affection entails grossly insulting and undermining anybody. Just for the reason that a courting is longer term doesn't suggest that it is well for you, and when you had been convinced with it you would not be going public like this to invite whether or not his behaviour is 'common' It is not, however you're, and also you deserve extra appreciate than this 'waste of area' is supplying you with. So cross uncover your self anybody who respects you - you are best 22, make a longer term courting with anybody who feels that you're specific, treats you that method and who permits you to select the channel!.
2016-09-03 19:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you love him enough you should both try to talk it out and if you both agree to break up then at least you can both be friends or stay together and work on it you never know you might get better at it and treat him better as well .....
2007-01-09 09:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can not or will not treat him the way he deserves to be treated let him find a woman that can.
2007-01-09 09:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ladder for sure. you need some time to work on yourself before you get involved with another person. Good Luck!
2007-01-09 09:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Myself 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go.it is the best u can do.
2007-01-09 09:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time can tell
2007-01-09 10:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋