i loved my brother's best friend and i thought that i should forget him but befor few days he told me that he loves me
it is very goood 4 me
but the problem with us is my brother should we tell him about that or it will make problems?????????
i wish u could understand the problem
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2007-01-09 09:39:57 · 10 answers · asked by newhappylife 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well since there is love between you's and not just messing around then your brother should be happy for you!
no matter what .... you gotta tell him
just imagine how upset he'll be knowing you kept it a secret from him??
remember.... no one can kept a secret!! secrets are always discovered!
i think you already know what the right thing to do is!
stop stalling with going on yahoo answers
you already know what you gotta do
i know its hard
good luck
2007-01-09 09:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he's your brother's friend shouldn't mean that you can't have a relationship with him. Although it will (probably) affect the relationship between your brother and him. Just keep in mind that guys are known to play girls and it would be a shame if you got played by this particular guy. Is it worth it to embarrass your brother for this guy?
2007-01-09 09:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem with it. You both just need to take your time with your relationship. Your brother shouldn't be jealous of you, unless he's gay. I think you should tell your brother. If you really love each other, then you'll be together....whether you have your brother's blessing or not. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-09 09:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old r u? How old is ur bro's friend? I suggest that you tell ur brother so that he's not surprised when the friend is over to hang out with you, not him. It may be a big deal now, but It will save trouble later.
2007-01-09 09:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by Traveler 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant hide it from your brother, you should tell him (assuming you and your brother have a decent sibling relationship).. but if you and this guy decide to try out the relationship, make sure you dont start imposing as the 'girlfriend' to hang out with him when hes with ur bro - otherwise your bro WILL then get angry!!
2007-01-09 09:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you date him doesn't mean that your next door neighbour is going to drive his car into a rock cut does it?, or the guy across the street is going to lose his job and not pay his bills right?, The only one's it will affect is you and him, screw everyone else, if they don't like it they know where the door is. Go for it!!!!
2007-01-09 09:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't see him because it will cause too much tension. Because when you guys break it off. There will be tension between you and your brother. Your brother and his best friend. And of course the tension between you and your ex. It's not worth it.
2007-01-09 09:46:56 · answer #7 · answered by Dee D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok here's what you do, date this guy and see how things go, if you two hit it off then tell your brother, otherwise don't say anything.
but remember, he is just your brother and who he is to say who you can and can't date?! do what makes you happy!
2007-01-09 09:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by ~karma~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have a brother, don't tell him anything.
2007-01-09 09:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
agree wut karma
2007-01-09 09:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋