2007-01-09 09:34:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Positive thinking. Keep reassuring yourself that everything will go fine. It's only one day. You'll have your friends and family around to help you.
2007-01-09 15:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about the day after.
Seriously, there is so much stress and expectation. You have put a lot of hard work and planning into this one day. Keep the focus on what it's all about... you and him.
So many things went "wrong" on my wedding day. Instead of freaking out that everything wasn't perfect, I just reminded myself that it was one day preparing for a lifetime. Enjoy yourself, if something doesn't go "as planned" shrug it off and know that you and your sweetie are making a commitment for happily ever AFTER not happily ever TODAY.
Honestly, it hasn't even been a year later and I don't have any regrets about my wedding day. So what if my cake melted in the heat before we could even cut it. So what if the people delivering the food bailed and we had to do an emergency scramble to get someone to pick it up. So what if my daughters curls wouldn't stay in place.
Take a deep breath and think about the AFTER part!
2007-01-09 09:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by jhvnmt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What i did is, before the wedding, i kept saying to myself that this is gonna happen only once and i dont want to waste it worrying. Ill just enjoy because i want everything to be perfect and everything will go well. As long as you planned everything, just relax and watch it all happen nicely. Then think of your life wiht the person you love after that.. No need to worry. Just enjoy. Good luck and congrats.
2007-01-09 22:44:00 · answer #3 · answered by bangles121 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if youre the bride/groom, think like this -- hopefully, this will be the only wedding day of your life.... do you want to spend it all stressed out or happy? prolly happy and smiling...
if you think everything will be ok, it WILL be! it's your day :) things arent as bad as they might appear to be.. just be sure to get enough sleep the night before the wedding
2007-01-09 09:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by goldenheartcity 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Alcohol!
2007-01-09 09:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Terence C 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
all i thought of was "i'm going on a vacation!". that, and think of it this way...you can't please everyone. if it's not a perfect day, you can't change it. be happy about your marriage to a wonderful man.
2007-01-09 09:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋