This guy I was having sex with was like "Jeez, are you new at this or something?". My face started to turn red because that was my first time having sex. Any tips on how to avoid that again?
No answers like "Come over to my house" or "Just keep having sex and you'll get better".
2007-01-09 09:03:20 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Whatever♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st of all u should have waited until you found someone you love and who loves you before u had sex. someone who loves you would not have said that.
wait until you are in a proper relationship and sex will be more comfortable
2007-01-09 09:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was so spell bound at the lack of pain during my first time that all I could continue saying in utter amazement was "wow! it doesn't hurt!". I'm really surprised the guy was able to finish at all.
Everyone's first time is awkward because NO ONE knows what they are doing the first time around. The difference between a virgin and a practiced veteran, is the veteran moves naturally, moans more honestly, doesn't have a problem telling the guy what he needs to do... the list could go on. When you are just starting off, everything is rather overwhelming - as it should be because even you don't know your body well enough at that point. No one becomes an expert (literally) overnight.
The next time a guy says something like that to you, simply answer "yes" with no explanation. Trust me, that will shut him up.
2007-01-09 09:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by lilrubberducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told us not to tell you "just keep having sex and you'll get better", but really, practice is what makes you better - at anything. You're not gonna be awesome in bed when you first do it... just like you couldn't hop on a bicycle for the first time and ride it without any trouble. It's gonna take practice. Nothing we can say to you will make you suddenly be able to have better sex.
2007-01-09 09:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didnt u tell him that u were a virgin??? Was he someone u knew or a stranger??
Anyway to answer ur question: You cant tell the difference between a virgin and a girl with experience. First time i had sex he said: how many guys have u been with? and i said none and he said why is that hard to believe? and second time i had sex(different guy): I said i dont have lots of experience and he said: ha ha ur funny!!! I mean they dont know if ur a pro or a virgin, but they can just assume it basing on ur attitude. If u feel relaxed and cool and comfortable they'll think ur experienced, if u feel weird and uncomfortable they'll think ur a virgin...it depends on u and on whether u made the right decision...
2007-01-09 09:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The dude's a jerk, why were you having sex with him in the first place?
Maybe you weren't showing..uh..your kinky side.
2007-01-09 09:14:51 · answer #5 · answered by Banana Hero [sic] 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thought that you were a virgin because you looked nervous, you should relax a little bit next time.
2007-01-09 09:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah get a guy who won't treat you like **** and respects you.
and come over to my house and get experience and you'll get better :)
2007-01-09 09:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by Interested 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
please tell me u wore protection?and its to bad your first time was with a complete DICK.if that was me i would've said"yea its new to me so when do u start to impress me?"what a selfish prick i hope u are no longer giving him the time & day.good luck babygirl!
2007-01-09 09:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by lolliphlip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ia gree with those on top acted that u r in control
2007-01-09 09:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by Pedro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch some porn
2007-01-09 09:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by **Damn its cold up here** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋