ok i been dating this guy for alittle over a year. we exsperiment alot. He has recently asked me to have sex with a friend (of his choice) while he watches..but he wants me to look him in the eyes as im doing it.
He has also asked if i would be comfortable watching him have sex with another girl of (my choice) my question is why..
what would someone get out of watching there partner with someone else?? I'm nether turned on, or put off by the idea but i would like to know the thinking behind it before i make a decition..
2007-01-09 09:03:03 · 11 answers · asked by angeliss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK.....I haven't experienced this personally but one of my friends said she did that for her husband and since then she has felt...different..She said it was like God had made his final judgment of her...and needless to say it wasn't good. She said it was like her soul was empty now......So I guess this depends on how religious you are and how much you trust your boyfriend, because that could be a very dangerous situation, if you don't know what you are getting yourself into or who the other person will be (SAFETY FIRST)....Anyway I hope this has helped you make the decision YOU will be happy with.
2007-01-09 09:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by murphysgrl01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the "watch my significant different having sex with yet another" fantasy is mostly because he must be certain as an outsider the way you look at the same time as having sex, the same element with you gazing him. Do your questioning, opt for in case you want to do it, that's exciting. it would want to get awkward quicker or later afterwards. attempt now to not do it with very close acquaintances. talk it over with him...if thats his questioning you could also get a camcorder and tape yourselfs. The pesimist decision is that he needs to have sex with yet another lady and all it truly is only a set up so that you dont look at it as an unfaithful act.
2016-12-02 01:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by kwiatkowski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are very visual and he wants to see you doing it. I've traded partners in the past, and it can be sexy. If you two don't trust each other it could also be a HUGE mistake. Layout all of the ground rules before hand.
2007-01-09 09:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by SLASH 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
If he REALLY cared for you, he wouldn't ask you to do such a thing.
I never knew what people got out of watching someone else with their mate.
It may just be a fantasy of his, but how far will his other fantasies go.
2007-01-09 09:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by Guess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
THAT IS RUBBISH. DONT YOU KNOW SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE IS SIN. STOP THAT RELATIONSHIP AND ASK FOR FORGIVENESS FROM GOD. Your boyfriend is just using you. What do you want in live? A happy live, a happy home, happy family, then give your live to the love of Jesus He alone LOVES you such that He dead for your sins. I love you so I tell you the truth.
2007-01-09 09:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by jenik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he is just trying to check how far he can get with you. If you do it am 100% sure he is not going to take you serious anymore. But its up to you.
2007-01-09 09:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Marquel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tome he has some kind of fetish about that,however i wouldnt do it if i were u but if u do it then i think it should be someone of ur choice or someone u both argree on
2007-01-09 09:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by debbie o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have a creep for a boyfriend
2007-01-09 09:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by simply me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex to whomever you want and because you want to, not because your boyfriend asks you to do so...
Don't degradate yourself.
2007-01-09 09:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his sorry a@@ to the curb!!!!
You are worth more then that!!!
Tell him hell no and drop dead!!!!!
2007-01-09 09:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋