A friend asked me this question a few days ago and I didn't know what to tell her.
2007-01-09 08:58:01 · 12 answers · asked by Devan G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is knowing that another person loves you as much as you love yourself. When you look at your future you can't picture that person not being a part of it. It is accepting that person falts and all not wanting them to change. When you a cuddled up next to them you know that is where you belong and where you want to be.
Lust sometimes can be confused with love if one has never experienced love before. Lust can fool people into believing they are in love, when they are not. Lust fades, because you know longer see that person threw rose colored glasses so to speak.
Lust isn't always about sex, it can steam from a person giving you what you need for the moment. I was in lust before, because he could sit and talk to me for hours without saying I talked too much, then I realized we didn't have anything else in common. Not to mention the sex wasn't anything to write home about (lol).
2007-01-09 10:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in lust and in Love and from what you've suggested your in lust over this guy....Love has 3 levels Friendship, trust, and fervour...it takes time to strengthen each and everybody. ultimately your different needs (trust, protection, emotional needs etc.) will come into play and in the journey that your purely fed on with information from the actual element of the relationship there is not much better room for strengthen nor a probability of having an pretty significant relationship were "all" your needs are being meet...
2016-12-02 01:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by kwiatkowski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's hard to differentiate the two until the relationship is over, but the difference between love and lust is simple. love should be obvious because it's deeper than a physical wanting. lust is simple as well because you WANT them in a sexual way. try looking in the dictionary and reading the meanings.
2007-01-09 09:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am not a professional but...lust would befeeling attracted to someone without knowing them very well and probably caused by hormones ;)
and love…well…no one can define love. Its just this beautiful thing that makes u feel good and jealous of other girls that flirt w/ ur crush…and that makes u think he’s the perfect guy…and he’s so cute and blah blah blah. U no the rest. :)
hope this helps a bit.
2007-01-09 09:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is what people think love is only it goes alway real quickly that and your just in it for the ***. Love you actually care deeply about that person and those feelings never go away.
2007-01-09 09:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aye that's easy. Love is an emotion you feel towards someone that encompases their entire being. Lust is pure a physical reaction to the hotness of the other individual
2007-01-09 09:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by Peg Leg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is selfless .. You realize you can sacrifice even for that person and you realize you really care that person ... You realize you constanty need them around and realize you have this passionate affection that you not feelign for others... Infatuation is when you just have a long crush on someone but yet not a mature love for a person..... You may be very smitten for a person but will fade really soon...
2007-01-09 11:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a feeling ...it's a choice...an emotion... you can choose to love someone or not... lust is sexual...physical...a craving...you think you may love someone but once lust is satisfied ...there is nothing but silence. ...You see someone and you maybe like 'Damm he or she is fine' but you wouldn't have a relantionship with them...that's lust. Love and lust can hurt regardless but Love carries you through. Love isn't blind ...you can see someone in there good and bad times and still be there for them.... lust is blind...all you see and want is the nookie :)....it fades....
2007-01-09 09:12:29 · answer #8 · answered by Curious Girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is something you can't do without...with no amount of time will you lose the feeling for it whether it's a person, a hobby or even a animal.
Lust is something that is there for a moment but fades with time whether the period of time is brief or not....
2007-01-09 09:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by Silly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love means you feel enough for them that you would do anything for them even die ..lust means you just want the booty.
2007-01-09 09:04:40 · answer #10 · answered by desiree1407 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋