We have been friends for 2 years and dated for 9 months, at first he was around alot and we would spend so much time for him, I fell so deeply in love with him and , I had never felt this way about anyone, but he began to get busy working full time and going to school at night, and I took it personally. I began to push him away to keep from being hurt, and the little time I did get with him I would be upset (my feelings were hurt) and finaly one night i said "maybe you just don't need a girlfriend", and have regreted it ever since. I want him back but I don't know how, I would hate to lose him forever. He agreed to have lunch with me but I'm nervous, I want him back so bad but I don't know how...Any advice would be helpful
2007-01-09 08:55:43 · 4 answers · asked by beautifuldreamer63 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there !!!
Its ok to feel nervous, just do not let those feelings over power you. Great that her wants to have lunch with you !!! Honey , just go being yourself, the girl he fell in love with. Remember that we do have responsibilities and you can not take it personal if he is working and studying. You should be happy for him.
Talk about how things are and have been, no feelings of guilt. act normal, and mentally prepare yourself before you get there. Try to feel like you are going to see him just like the old times, and even better, because you will have so many things to talk about.
If the subject comes up, about what happened between you two, be sincere with him,.let him know how you felt, but that you do miss him and you realize that things are really different than what you thought they were.
Remember that no matter what, you are his friend, and if he has moved on with his life, even though it will hurt inside, keep your chin up high, it just was not meant to be, at least not for now maybe.
wishing you the best of luck
love light and peace
2007-01-09 09:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation im nervous too but just be funny and normal is all i can say dont be too wanty or needy if you know what im sayin that aint what he liked about you when he first met you so that is what is prob what hed like if he likes anything good l luck
2007-01-09 09:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel if he is the man he should be he should take you back in a sec if not don't obsess over it it was good while it lasted
2007-01-09 09:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by amers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him that u really didnt mean that tell him ur srry tell him that u need him and if that doesnt work well then its his fault
2007-01-09 09:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Dididi W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋