I have been with him for about 7 months now and i rally love him and think maybe he is the one but he is always telling me what to do or who to talk to what should i do plzz help thanks =)
2007-01-09 08:47:27 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is controlling you. It probably will become more and more abusive. Leave him now.
2007-01-09 08:53:12 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this time and age we all have a mind of our own. I have been through enough in a relationship to know what is wrong or right. Is your boyfriend your father? why should you have to answer to him? your not married and even so. Do you have your own opinions? Unless you are absolutely doing something wrong like cheating on him. He has an insecurity problem. Ask him if he trusts you if he says yes he does.then ask him why he does not trust you because this is also a trust issue. Men or boys depending on how they are raised have problems emotionally or not. I have been around a lot of guys through friendships that are very insecure in their life that they try to control the ones that they love this can also go for women or girls too. But I have also been around enough to know there are men/boys out there that in a relationship it is a compromise NOT a one way street. My advice get out while you can see this or you could get worse with some sort of abuse be it verbal, mental and or physical. None good either. Trust me I know from my own experience. Guys dont take assault. there are good guys out there you just have to fine them.
2007-01-09 09:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by harleywildcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i was there about 3 years ago and i let it happen, it bugged me so much and i realize now i should have backed out then because as time goes on it gets worse and don't ever believe for second that he'll change out of the blue, he may cool it down if you talk to him about it but it'll continue, so don't believe it. i know it may hurt leaving the relationship but it'll be worth it, cause in the future, it's a whole lot worse. God Bless.
2007-01-09 08:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by latina ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him.
His being controlling shows a low self esteem on his part.
He his scared of losing you, thats why he his trying to control you.
He will not change as he gets older. It will only get worse over time.
There is someone better out there for you.
Best of luck to you.
2007-01-09 08:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, on account which you 2 are not married or otherwise under any contractual criminal duty different than a verbal pronouncement, all you will desire to do to quit the difficult torture is say: "i'm breaking apart with you. do not seek advice from me anymore." that's relatively all there is to it. you do not would desire to complication approximately explaining your self, or telling him what he did incorrect, or something like that. this is as much as him to be bothered approximately himself and you to be bothered approximately your self. The worst undertaking you will desire to do is string him alongside, nag him, or submit together with his anger, hostility, moods, or regardless of. Relationships at the instant are not self-sacrifice, they seem to be a meeting of two minds, shifting in direction of comparable targets in existence, at the same time looking happiness. in case you're suffering in any respect, then seem out for your self, and circulate on.
2016-10-30 11:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would talk to him about that...he sounds like a controlling person and it can effect ur future esp when u think he is the one. If he doesn't understand that u dont like to be treated that way then he isnt the one.
2007-01-09 08:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by *<i:o) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a anal creep.
i don't see why you put up with it, when there are better men out there.
you should invest in some time to seriously REthink about why you went into the relationship in the first place, your previous expectations and what it has actually turned out to be (b/c i don't think you wanted him to tell who you could associate with and not).
personally, it's not worth it.
2007-01-09 08:55:48 · answer #7 · answered by shaigrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think he's controlling....bcuz u have the right to see or talk 2 who ever u want
2007-01-09 09:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by DJ UZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to him about it. explain to him that the century where men can tell woman what to do is over and that you love him and there is no reason why he shouldn't trust u if you haven't done anything to deserve it. and if he doesn't understand that then tell him that is insecurities are going to be the thing to make the relationship die.
2007-01-09 08:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is def. being controlling and it is either going to get worse or you are just going to get tired of it so you should tell him to chill out now or you may really regret it in the future!
2007-01-09 08:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by Tink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave Now. He is controlling and it will only get worse. You will find someone else to love.
2007-01-09 08:55:00 · answer #11 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋