He's not just satisfied with touching he now wants me to go all the way. At 17 I'm not ok with that. Waiting until I get married. I have 2 years with him but he just won't let up. How should I handle it?
2007-01-09 08:42:48 · 15 answers · asked by Karen C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go all the way....sex is a great thing!!!!
2007-01-09 09:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you two have different beliefs. I don't think you should change how you are for anyone. But you should acknowledge that his beliefs are different from yours, and he most likely will not change either. You have been a couple for 2 years. Most average couples with the same belief in the engagement sexual intercourse would have already had sex long ago, but since you strongly believe in abstinence, you both have not had sex yet.
He should respect your decision and you should respect his needs as 2 years is a long time. Maybe you should have talked about your decision of abstinence when you first met him. I don't see this relationship getting better. Two people with two completely different beliefs regarding something extremely important: There is sure to be conflict. I agree with most of the posters, he should respect your beliefs and the last thing he should do is pressure you. That's straight up disrespectful. I just don't think you should have chosen him to be your boyfriend in the first place though, since his sexual beliefs are so different from yours.
2007-01-09 08:53:00 · answer #2 · answered by Bobby_Bomberman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think ur bf should respect ur wishes and not pressure u 2 do anything u dont want 2 and if hes does just dump him
2007-01-09 08:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by SarahBear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he respectes you he would pressure you in doing something you don't want to do. I am going to tell you this now.. you need to tell him how you feel or else leave him, cause if a guy really loves you he would pressure you into doing anything. He would respect your wishes and what you decide to do!
2007-01-09 08:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-30 11:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loved you he would respect your wishes. The fact that he won't respect you is a red flag. You need to have a serious discussion with him explaining your stance. If he still doesn't listen, it's time to dump him and find a guy out there who won't pressure you. (They do exist!!)
2007-01-09 08:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pretty much agree with everyone on this page im 18 and still a virgin and even though my and my bf are having problems he would never pressure me talk to ur bf
2007-01-09 08:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he really truly loves u he'll wait until ur ready. And if he doesn't get through with him and if he still bothers u tell someone u trust. U did good on wanting to wait until u get married. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-09 08:53:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your foot down and tell him that if he does not lay off the pressure tactics and show you some respect you will not be able to stay with him. If he doesn't respect you, their is no future for the two of you.
2007-01-09 08:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM IF HE'S READY FOR SEX IS HE READY TO BE A FATHER OR DEAL W/ STDS OR ANY OTHER FACTORS THAT GOES W/ HAVING SEX. HE'LL PROBABLY FREAK OU THAT YOU ASKED HIM SOMETHING LIKE THAT AN GET MAD. GIRL IF HE CAN'T RESPECT U KICK HIS A** TO THE CURB. THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE IS WILLING TO WAIT AND TEN YEARS FROM NOW BECAUSE U WAITED U WILL BE LAUGHING AT HIM CAUSE HE WILL BE UNEMPLOYEED W/ TWO BABY MAMA'S AND 3 KIDS.
2007-01-09 09:05:47 · answer #10 · answered by teriwilburn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cares for you he will back off and respect your wishes and not pressure you into doing something you feel uncomfortable with if he still keeps doing it dump him.
2007-01-09 08:54:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋