I was in a long-distance relationship for almost 3 years. He was a great guy and was so good to me.. I was a different person when with him..I ended things with him cuz I couldnt take the distance.. He made many promises that he would move but it didn't happen as quickly as we wanted. As we parted, I realized where I went wrong and I wnted him to make all changes while I did nothng.tried to get him back ..was the worst thing I ever had to do because I felt that I had to do it not because I wanted to but because I couldnt wait forever..When we parted... he told me that he never wanted to lose contact... I refused to but ever time he would call (which was once a wk) I would answer..So 2 years have passed and we still talk.and Im still not over him cuz of the contact. I still love him so much and wish we could be together..I know he's casually dating now and I feel stupid to ask him if he would consider us again.If I meant that much to him.wouldnt he come aftr me? Or should I just let i
2007-01-09 08:42:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask him about getting back together, you'll regret it if you don't. If he says no, tell him that you can't keep in contact with him anymore because it confuses you and holds you back. Don't hold onto the past if he says no, you're better than that.
2007-01-09 08:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Vena cava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask this and honestly answer.
If this were to progress to marriage.
Who will be the main bread earner?
Who can move to same city right now? If job availability is there.
Any other Q?.....
List them , allow 4 wks to list all, answer as many as you can.
You will on your own will have good grip on the situation.
Then act on it break it up clean and get on with the your life or take the action, or maintain the status co.
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2007-01-09 09:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really SURE you have made a life long mistake then be honest with him--don't wait till its too late and he finds someone to take your place--tell him you are sorry for the hasty thought pattern that you know he was trying to move as fast as he could but that your impatience got in the way and it made you selfish and its really wrecking your life --
2007-01-09 08:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY...you need to let him know how you feel...cause if you dont you are going to regret it forvever and always be asking yourself why you didnt just do it. So...GO FOR IT. What is the worst that could happen ...he will say Yeah or probably not. ..the probably not will just leave you both where you both are now. Good luck.
2007-01-09 08:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by nancy23nannan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived something similar and decided to move along, let him go. Now he is married (not happy) but it was his choice. I did what its best for me. But before acting talk to him find out his thoughts.
Good luck
2007-01-09 08:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Marquel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it tell him how you feel. If he says he's happy who he's with let it go and try to move on. good luck!
2007-01-09 08:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one things for sure, if you broke it off with him he's probably not going to chase u, sometimes us women just have to suck it up and admit when we're wrong about something and go after what we want!!
best of luck to you two.. NOW GO GET HIM!!
2007-01-09 08:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by SHORTY38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember that relationships are for two people you have to put his feelings into this to. does he want you back...are you willing to move for him...
2007-01-09 08:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by Terri F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come
2016-11-11 19:02:57 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
2007-01-09 08:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋