how can i make a man love me and want to get marry with me
2007-01-09 08:40:50 · 26 answers · asked by yalda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't make someone love you. The best thing you can do is be yourself and quit being obsessed with trying to get someone to love you and marry you.
You will find someone once you quit trying so hard. Go out with friends, flirt, have fun and you will eventually find a man that will feel that way about you.
2007-01-09 08:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't. It's impossible to make anyone love you. And the more desperate you sound, the more likely you are to frighten people off. Right now, you're sounding pretty desperate. Stop worrying about men, just be yourself, do the things you love, hang out with friends and maybe, perhaps, a guy will come along. But if you make finding a man the core of your existence, you will be in for some pretty miserable times.
2007-01-09 08:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by Gallifrey's Gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can attract a man, but you can't make him love you. Take your time, you will find the right person, or he will find you. If you try forcing yourself on someone to make them love you then you will scare them away, or worse, end up in a marriage that ends because one of you realizes you just kind of got swept up in it. It sounds like you are in love with the idea of love and marriage, but realize, it will never be like it is on tv all the time, especially not if you make someone love you. To attract a man, give him all your attention, but not in a scary stalker way. Make it seem like what he says is the center of your world at the moment. That is, after all, how it will be when you find Mr. Right, not just Mr. Right now, and it's real, natural love.
2007-01-09 08:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lil Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself... you don't have to make a man love you.. a man will fall in love with who you are. Not what you look like, or what you wear or where you work. YOU!
2007-01-09 08:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can´t do that unless you have superpowers or something like that but even so that won´t be real love. You can´t force someone to love you and feel attracted to you... it´s not up to you, it´s up to the person, you can try being upfront and try to make him happy but if he only sees you as a friend then just move on and find something worth your time and your efforts.
2007-01-09 08:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to make a person love you unless you would consider buying them out--such as a sugar mama--and who would want that?? Except the men of course--looking for a easy ride on someone else dollar bill---how sad
2007-01-09 08:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question, I suppose you have to do way too much work, that you won't be ready for. Men are easy. I don't see why it's so difficult, unless someone is extremely ugly or intolerable.
2007-01-09 08:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by tonycharms05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone Love you.
Just be yourself, if they don't like you 4 you. Than you don't need them in the 1st place.
2007-01-09 08:45:01 · answer #8 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" anyone do or feel anything. Just be yourself and when someone crosses your path who is a good match, things will work out.
2007-01-09 08:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE a person fall in love with you...just be you, and everything will fall into place.
2007-01-09 08:43:49 · answer #10 · answered by LovePinkPuffies 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋