He says that he loves me and that those girls are only his friends. I wonder if I should belive and trust him or be careful about his previous relationships.
2007-01-09 08:38:18 · 10 answers · asked by Magdzior 8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, listen!! He should not have any reason to be speaking with his ex if it makes you uncomfortable and he love you like he says he does. Your needs and wants should come before hers. Him having female friends bother you then yous hould let him know but also give a legit answer for it. You can not say just because... I would say trust him and be careful at the same time. Look for the signs of cheating. Most men do not know that cheating comes in all different packages whether it is emotional, physically, etc. How long has it been since they broke up? How long has it been since you and him been dating? He may have feelings for her and they will not go away if he keeps the communication line open between them. Be careful and keep you eyes open. I hope it works out.
2007-01-09 08:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by michellej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are his ex's for a reason, but he still should not spend so much time chatting with them. Tell him to put his self in your shoes. If he doent mind that then start chatting alot more with guys not just your ex's.
2007-01-09 16:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Only His Friends" girlfriend get real wake up and smell those roasted brazilian beans baby.
This is how it is - he says he loves you so 50/50 believe him and and put up with him being friends with his ex's.
Then at some stage he will, oh yes he will dump you and in no time you will find out that he's back with an ex.
would love to find out the end result if you ever reach it.
Good luck RTC
2007-01-09 17:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by raythecat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me amiga, you need to ask him why he is havin these lil chats wit his "ex's". If he wants to chat then he should be spendin that time wit you. Dont turn it into anythin bigger than it already is, just tell him how you feel bout it and why it is wrong.
2007-01-09 16:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by arrozazul6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i talk with my ex alot too, but its not because i like her or anything, its just that we know each other well enough to have a good conversation everytime and she's a good friend to me.
i wouldnt worry about it, and if it still bugs you then just ask him to calm it with them abit.
good luck.
2007-01-09 18:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Marv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a bit strange to me.
2007-01-09 16:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always dump him to guarantee he spends more time with you?
2007-01-09 16:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by Andy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt stand for it!
get rid!
2007-01-09 16:43:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sophisticated problem. look into into google. that will help!
2014-11-06 01:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him be with them.
2007-01-09 16:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by keshia0978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋