Have you ever been rejected,like , by someone you had a crush on?Remember how it feels? You feel like as is you lost a million dollars, or like you are not good enough for them? Yup!Been there...But that's not the question, isn't it funny how you never think of it that way when you are saying NO to someone?! Imagine ,it's only today that I thought of it that way.
Seems like what goes around comes back around....OR WHAT DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS?EVER REJECTED SOMEONE?EVER BEEN REJECTED??
2007-01-09 08:35:40 · 17 answers · asked by The Isht! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm just asking a question, not cuz I GOT rejected or anything,!
2007-01-09 09:47:24 · update #1
I completely agree with what you said. What Comes Around, Does Come All The Way Back Around. I've done the Rejecting a couple of times but i've been on the Rejected side for 98% of my life. It doesn't feel to good but when you find out that how they rejected you has comeback around 10 fold then it really clicks. I hate to say it but it does make you happy when you find out that whatever it is has come back around on that person. Hope I've Helped. Good Luck
2007-01-09 08:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because I have never been in the situation where I have asked a guy out. I let the guy come to me......I think guys get rejected more because they are usually the ones who do most of the asking out..If I was the one who did the pursuing I am sure I would of been rejected too at one point or a norther. So don't feel bad. I do believe at some point in our lives "what goes around comes around" to bit us in the butt. However that's one reason why I try not to put myself in those kinds of situations if I can help it.
2007-01-09 16:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who hasn't?! But your question does serve as a reminder to be careful how we reject others as it could come back to haunt us. It's difficult to be tactful while informing someone that we don't want to be in a relationship with them....and is probably the reason people often take the 'cowards way' out and just start ignoring or avoiding a potential flame instead of being straightforward. I do believe that what goes around comes around.
2007-01-09 16:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have rejected people and it isn't something that I think would bring about bad karma. I would feel even worse if I pretended to like someone or be with anybody just because they had a crush. Just because someone has a crush on you or you have a crush on someone doesn't obligate you or them to have the same feelings. I was friends with this guy in high school and he did have a crush on me. He let me know on a number of occasions and I told him that I just didn't see him that way. He still has the same crush on me now 8 years later and it is getting kinda creepy. It's like I can't talk to him about anything because he is constantly trying to mention something about liking me. I guess people cannot help who they crush on.
2007-01-09 16:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by JaZbWell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
had my fare of rejection, and yes it sucks, and yes, what goes around comes around, sometimes sevenfold, so just in case, play fair and be nice.
It's okay to let someone know you're not interested, but the way you let them know is very important, so remember the "do no harm" thingie? Life's like that, dude.
2007-01-09 16:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by MICHAEL G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly believe what goes around comes around and why because whether its been me or someone else that has caused damage at the end they get whats coming to them there is a punisher somewhere in this world.
2007-01-09 16:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by I need to know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I believe in what goes around comes around.
treat people how you would like to be treated:)
yes I have rejected people and I have been rejected
2007-01-09 16:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reject the whole thing myself. What goes up must come down. Life is always changing.
2007-01-09 17:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by ascendent2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes just today and it hurt alot because he lead me on and I hate it when it happens! He said he liked me and then I asked him out and he said that he only wants to be friends! it was a bad day or should I say a bad week!
2007-01-09 16:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by BSUgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...of course everyone is rejected at some point in their lives.
So, I guess yes, what comes around goes around.
2007-01-09 16:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Laura♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋