Every Monday she comes in and tells us about her conquests from the weekend. She is not a great looking person, but has big breasts...Are guys really that shallow to focus only on the breasts and teh fact that she is so easily seduced?
2007-01-09 08:24:34 · 32 answers · asked by gretyl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try the direct approach.
2007-01-09 08:30:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if her being a whore effects you? You should not take it upon your self to judge another person too quickly. She may very well enjoy what she does or there is a reason behind her boasting. As long as it does not hurt you in any way then I would stay out of it and let her be the person she wants to be. Just be glad that she is taking up the men who don't give a crap and leaving the good ones behind for you! LOL!
2007-01-09 08:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her in a loving way if she doesn't realize that she's making herself sound like a whore? Maybe she hasn't thought about that. Some people are pretty dense and you might be doing her a favor by being honest with her. Then if she's ok with it, then I'd just tell her I didn't want to hear about her weekends.
2007-01-09 08:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Texas T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously they are. And you want nothing of those guys either, btw.
You don't tell her she's being a whore (which she is). I would think telling about her conquests would be very inappropriate for the workplace, so you could maybe tell her that way. Or do nothing, and wait for the boss to hear about it, and he/she will tell her (which is probably what I would do.)
2007-01-09 08:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless this person was a GOOD friend of mine I would simply tell her that I'm not interested in her escapades and to keep the info to herself.
There is no reason that you should be subjected to this at work and what she is doing is probably illegal, as in sexual harassment.
Based on your description of her, she might be fibbing and trying to gain acceptance.
Only get involved if your willing to handle any repercussions.
And yes, many men, especially young ones, are that shallow.
Just my opinion, I could be wrong.
2007-01-09 08:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop listening to her. Walk away from the conversation, she will get the hint. Talking about conquests is not something you should do in a busienss office. Most likely it's all BS anyway. Just ignore her.
2007-01-09 08:28:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face comes first for me. I have never thought that large breasts were very attractive or practical. Maybe a c or a b is ok. That way it will stay nice instead of sag later on. Am I alone on this?
2007-01-09 08:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not her breast hun...it's because she is an easy whore. Don't let it bother you. Just think she will be the one walking around with an STD pretty soon and you can laugh at her about it!
If you really don't want to hear about it, just say that is gross...walk away or just tell her I don't wanna hear about it.
2007-01-09 08:29:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jules Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't listen to her. People talk about all kinds of things that may not be of interest to you, you don't need to tell them they're being boring - simply stop socializing with them, is all. I agree, it's kind of a stupid thing to be bragging about and focusing on - but in and of itself, there's nothing wrong with wanting to go out and have fun with guys; you have fun shoe-shopping, she has fun guy-shopping. The only situation when either would be ridiculous is if it was all either one of you could talk about.
2007-01-09 08:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it your business to tell her this?
You don't need to make any enemies at work. Who knows what kinds of things she can say about you, behind your back?
Just ignore her. Much of what she talks about could just be bragging. You could call he a whore, and she could call you a judgemental bi*ch. Which of you would be wrong?
2007-01-09 08:30:28 · answer #10 · answered by Vince M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are dogs and let her be a whore if she wants...its her life and Im sure she knows what shes doing. She'll be the one regreting it in the future!
2007-01-09 08:28:18 · answer #11 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋