if i would happen to go tell this guy im obsessed with that i like him, should i wait until he's not with a bunch of his friends? would this be embarrassing for him? i wouldnt be, but guys are different. i kinda get embarrassed easy so im a little worried that he may turn ME down, then i'll feel stupid around his friends..any advice?
thanks in advance!
2007-01-09 08:16:47 · 12 answers · asked by Ambieboo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes kinda always with his guy friends, so its hard to find him by himself
2007-01-09 08:18:06 · update #1
haha im not actually going to say im in love with him..i would just say i LIKE him
2007-01-09 08:23:29 · update #2
A lot of guys, for whatever reasons, prefer to keep their social life and their romantic life separate. This leads to a lot of women wondering, "Why doesn't he want me to meet his friends?"
But most guys don't mean anything by it, it's just that they're kind of a different person when they're with their friends than they are when they're with their girlfriend. I can't explain it, really. That's just how it works a lot of times.
So I would wait to tell him until the two of you are alone. You wouldn't want to get things off on the wrong foot by ambushing him in front of his friends.
2007-01-09 08:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this does not embarrass guys. Actually don't be obsessed with him and tell him how much you like him. Instead, have the courage to go up to him and talk. Write your name and phone number on a piece of paper and smile while giving it to him.
Or just casually go up and ask to be alone with him and have a small talk. Just flatter the guy and hopefully he'll respect you too.
2007-01-09 08:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would suggest doing it away from his friends. Since if his friends think it is funny or something then the peer pressure would be high on him to say no. Good luck though, keep waiting for the opportune moment ^-^.
2007-01-09 08:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by SailorBlue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would have to say do what you feel is right. He's a guy you can pull him a side and let him know how you feel, but there's a chance that he will tell his friend later after your done talking. We always know who likes us male and female. So if he really likes you, you want even have to tell him. One day he'll just come rite up to you out of the blue, and you be together just like that. But if that day doesn't come fast enough just walk up to him . And spark up a conversation and demand a date. But don't tell him that you are obesessed with him or you will be embarassed.
2007-01-09 08:30:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask him in front of his friends, it will be stressful, awkward and difficult regardless of his response, and he might find it difficult to answer honestly.
Just ask if you can talk to him privately for a second and tell him what's on your mind as directly as you can.
If you have trouble getting him apart from the group, watch until he goes to the bathroom or something and follow him a moment later, pouncing on him when he gets out but before he can head back to his friends. Not the best approach, but it's worked for me before :-)
Good luck!
2007-01-09 08:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would probably be better to tell him you liek him when he's alone especially if you don't know what his feelings are. you say you'll get embarrassed if he rejects you in front of his friends so it's not a good idea to do it in front of them. also he'll probably be more honest with you if his friends aren't there because he won't have to worry about what his friends think or if they'll tease him about it.
2007-01-09 08:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to him with the group, tell him that you like him and that you'd like to talk to him when he has some free time, then walk away. Unless he parts from the group, don't talk any further at that time.
2007-01-09 08:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by bilko_ca 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him alone girl. it would embarrise you more then it would ever him, he would laugh with his uddys at you and be mean. but you have a chance if you're alone with him, but guys are hard to know. they don't like to say that they have feelings. trust me. i've been there.
2007-01-09 08:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a personal thing you should tell him when you guys are alone.
2007-01-09 08:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do don't tell him you are obsessed with him no matter where he is or who he is with.
2007-01-09 08:21:32 · answer #10 · answered by The Brown Bomber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋