Why do people feel ashamed about how many they`ve had?I`ve had over 200,with both men and women and i couldn`t give a stuff about what people think.Also before anyone comments i always insist they cover up and im checked regulary.So wheres the shame?
2007-01-09 08:16:29 · 35 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm.................I'm not convinced...............or am I just hopelessly romantic ? xxx
2007-01-09 08:36:26 · answer #1 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be judmental or think i'm better, but well, since it's a question.
I think that the shame comes from moral. Some have it, and others don't care.
Maybe it's hypocritical as well. But it's just down to ethic.
I mean, for you, there doesn't seem to be any boundaries, men, women, you seem to be looking for physical satisfaction and don't embarass yourself with feelings; Because it's not on your agenda.
But say you'd meet someone you really care about, would you not think twice before bragging about your sexual prouesses?
Besides, it's a personal choice I would think.
As far as I'm concerned, what matters to me, is from the moment I met that person. It's their present and our future that I am very interested in.
The past comes in the equation only if it's a recurrent past.
However, yes, it's good to know what type of person you are about to be with to make your own decision in totall awareness.
No offence meant.
2007-01-09 08:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you have any respect for yourself? You openly admit to having used and discarded over 200 different people. The sad thing is that, whether you are aware of it or not, they used and discarded you as well, like the overused, worn-out piece of $5 sex toy you are trying your best to be--and succeeding, apparently.
Get a little self-respect--and respect for others.
2007-01-09 08:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No shame. Perhaps the same sex thing but whatever takes your fancy at the time. Go with the flow.
2007-01-09 08:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by dlg3579 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go girl lol its even better if you keep a F/B me and my friend did that and it was so funny reading them having a girly night in with a bottle of wine sooooooo funny reminiscing what we got up to
we didn't have no were near 200 hundred tho prob not even a quarter
2007-01-09 08:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jo C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your careful thats all that matters and as long as your happy and not doing it because of other feelings
So men and women eh?
Now im intrigued! are u male or female! I wonder quite oten what lesbianism feels like
2007-01-09 08:21:09 · answer #6 · answered by itsmeeeeeeeee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
god only knows - i have had 46 and people treat me like crap when they find out -i get such a lot of abuse, but some of them have turned around to me and said they have had like 16 or 17. how is that not as bad????
its really annoying
2007-01-09 08:20:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont see any shame thats your choice, but think about it, sum day your going to catch a very nasty disease, oh but wait a minute your saying no i wont am immune it wont happen to me i use protection blah blah blah, there is a word for people like you
i also personalty think full of crap and a attention seeker
2007-01-09 08:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by rusty red 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Anyone who has had over 200 likely doesn't care about what people think.
Shame comes later. When you try to find a spouse. He/she will have trouble respecting you.
2007-01-09 08:20:24 · answer #9 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
it's just taboo, but your right there shouldn't be shame. AS long as your checking to make sure your clean, all the power to ya.
2007-01-09 08:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by krissy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There isnt any..... so why are you asking? If you are not bothered, and even seem slightly proud, why do you care about the response from Yahooers??
200.... only? You need to catch up, mate!
2007-01-09 08:20:58 · answer #11 · answered by Caroline 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋