I got excepted to college in arizona and i live in the monteray bay area. I love my boyfriend dearly and i know that he is the man i'm going to marry but he doesnt seem to want me to leave. I'm worried that if i go it would ruin everything. . . what should I do??!!!
2007-01-09 08:12:51 · 5 answers · asked by .em. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need your degree, in these times , but i know you love him ask your parents and all of you talk things out together because this is a matter of the heart and your future you need family advice and talk to your man with your family. Enjoy your time togehter right now, but he would appreciate it that one day the mother of his children has a degree and will be able to support them if anything was ever to happen to him. The answer is already in your heart follow it and trust it !!!
2007-01-09 08:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by xiavera a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to come with you! If hes not willing to let you pursue your life and career, then he must not care about you as much as he claims he should want to back you up on all your goals in life. I would go, college is good and it will help you in the long run to get a job and start your life. even tho things might seem great with him now, relationships are never certain. So maybe talk to him a little more about it and if he doesnt change his mind, id just tell him to deal with it and if its ment to be, it will find its way
2007-01-09 08:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mindless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what's best for YOU... if that means going to college in AZ, and he doesn't support that decision, then he isn't the right man for you, no matter how much you love him now. A good relationship involves both partners being able to give and take, and both wanting the best for each other.
2007-01-09 08:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by Ali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life and education are most important at this time... you're talking 4-5 yrs that will affect the rest of your life!!!!
There are plenty of guys in the world if this one doesn't hang with it... Furthermore, you should try dating different guys to get knowledge of the dating scene..
2007-01-09 08:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go, if you stay then you would be risking your whole future. Your still young and education is guarenteed your and his relationship is not guarenteed no matter how much in love the 2 of you are!
2007-01-09 08:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋