every time i get close to a girl and the relationship goes to the next level i panic and screw everything up?

Question

can anyone help with this

Answer 1

Some people are just like that- you must look past the fear and 'scariness' or relationships. Now, you didn't define to much about the 'situation' but I'm sure you don't always screw it up. Even if you do, darlin'- there are all types of fish in the sea. Getting close to someone is the best thing in the world, you just need to work extra hard on watching what you say and how you express your emotions, both verbally and physically. Relationships, and BELIEVE me- women are WORK. It's not always a walk in the park you know... Sometimes an extra mile will save those who tend to "screw things up". Don't let it get you down, a real women allows mistakes and you either learn and grow- or move on to something better. If you think you're a screw up; you'll be one no matter what. Tell yourself something more possitive. Let me know how it works!

Good luck sweetie!

Answer 2

Don't panic. Just relax. Be yourself. If the other person doesn't like you then that's there problem.

Answer 3

The panic you feel is part of the fun.

Answer 4

honestly the key with of course controlling sexual thoughts. Always ask, ask .That's how you know. If you're under 18 no sex and use a condom 18 over

Answer 5

It is not that easy to help on this via written answer. If you do want to resolve this, try professional counseling.

Answer 6

try not to freak out and if you do deal with it and maybe you will actually like the relationship you would be in

Answer 7

just try to be yourself.if you are trying to impress your girl.than you must be trying to hard.slow down an relax an take evrything slow

Answer 8

just relax and tell your partner that they are moving to fast for your liking and if they dont respect that then they dont deserve you

Answer 9

good luck