how can you tell if he likes you?if it is true that they are just shy,how do you ask him out without scaring him?how can you tell if he just wants to be friends?what hints can you drop that tell him you rreeeaally like him?
2007-01-09 08:07:56 · 8 answers · asked by mudball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
last year a bunch of my classmates found out and would always tell him in front of me. when theyd say it hed turn red and just use sarcasm.one tim they said that to him me and one of my other guy friends and my other friend got rreeally red.i go to this boys house all the time and play tackle football and smear the quer and were always right against each other
2007-01-09 08:20:56 · update #1
Observation.
2007-01-09 08:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahaha this reminds me of how i used to be. yes i was that shy little boy haha. the #1 thing you can do is get him comfortable with you. go to a party with a buch of friends or to the movies, but make sure its just not you an him (at least for now) b/c he might be intimidated. talk to him a lot, and he will come around. using notes or instant messaging is a good way to start if hes really shy. to give him hints, joke around, like if he says something funny, be like " oh so-and-so i love you". or if he says something nice to you, tell him that it ws really sweet and stuff and how much you love him. if he doesnt come around then, find a guy or a girl who is friends with him and ask him to poke around a little to see what he thinks of you.make sure it someone you trust though. he should come around sooner or later, but if he doesnt, then you can start toshow bigger signs of you liking him, like grabbin his hand when going through a crowd, or gabbing him when theres a scary part in a movie. if he doest show that he likes you back at first, dont get sad right away. its probably hard for him to shw his feelings, believe me i know, and what im telling you should help him do that. if still nothing happens, you should have a talk with him, just for youto know if he likes you back or not, but make sure you know, b/c i know the worst feeling that i could ever get, would be letting a girl who i liked, and who liked me, go. hope it goes well!!
2007-01-09 16:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant he could be acting or he could have a gf and wants both you . Best idea be direct and see how that goes. Try not to put him on the spot in front of others just in case he is shy.
2007-01-09 16:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt hurt to give him the friendly hug here and there, ya know, the lingering hug. if something pokes ya then hey, you were right. if not whisper something in his ear ;-) if you are afraid of ruining a friendship then just forget about it because chances are you'll end up doing that. i dont know what girls have against approaching the guy for once. give it a shot life goes on if hes not into you.
2007-01-09 16:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by l337gaurd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are shy. I used to be. Alot of men like to be approached, it sort of gives them that "she's interested" vibe and gives them the ok to be more open and forward. If he continues to give you poor body language suggesting he isn't interested, just back off. hope that helps.
2007-01-09 16:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Fireglo72 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with him but ease into it. When you talk to him try to touch him on the shoulder and things like that. Just go slow.
2007-01-09 16:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. talk to him, be natural around him when talking and just bring it up.
2007-01-09 16:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by Shortie<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smiles..... stares... sit by him!.... say hi in the hallway
2007-01-09 16:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by Susanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋