i want to get over him without finding another guy
2007-01-09 07:57:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
easy dont think about him again
and try to engage ur time doing anything else thinking about him
2007-01-09 08:02:50 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may feel like you don't want to meet another man, but you gotta make yourself !!! It always helps to take a long time getting ready to go out and feel really pretty. Put some music on, pour yourself a glass of champagne and take a nice long relaxing shower. Put your favorite music on! Then.....
go out with your girlfriends, flirt with everyone, take home the richest and most sophisicated guy- not to mention hot. Have some amazing sex your man hasn't given you. Then think wether you really miss your boring man or see what other BETTER possibilities are out there. I think you know the answer. Life is short- you deserve the best.
2007-01-09 08:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Reading and Answering Your Q' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i suggest u to do, is to find reasons why it didn't work. rethink about them, and make u realize why u are better without him. find ur self-esteem, make things for u to feel better. get busy with other things u love to do. the less time u have to think about him, the faster u realize u are not thinking as often about him. finding someone else is not always the best thing to do, sometimes it won't help, instead it gets worse. conclusion, get busy and open up your life to new things. go shopping, go to the salon, change ur look, admire urself more. and just know that everything will be fine.
2007-01-09 08:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your life yours -
enjoy the things you like to do that he never wanted to -
Learn new things like hobbies
Decorate the way you always wanted - or go sight-seeing go places and do things you enjoy and become independent - once you make your life and yourself happy and the way you want - then and only then will you ever be able to make someone else happy - then tat special person will be right before your eyes - and you will look back and realize that all the others were just a trial and error process, lol (stepping stones to the right level and right love in life)
2007-01-09 08:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by Bugs_Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let him go because of his dumb mistakes.
It hurts and its hard.
I told myself id give myself 3 days and wrote everyday how much i was better off. And i kept a rubber band on my wrist everytime i got heart ache and sick I snapped it.
i lost 5 lbs last week and smoke a lot of cigs but Im fine now.
I dont give a crap what he does he should be at my feet begging instead of me being his door mat.
I want to enjoy life. and after living with him for 4 whole monthes i found out that was not fun.
I am so happy right now, I miss him and the good times, what little good times there were.
2007-01-09 08:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say without finding another guy do you mean for a relationship? because just having casual free sex should help alot towards getting over some jerk
2007-01-09 08:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Dylan m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime you think of him, immediately think of all the bad things he has done to you, until you can divert attention to something else. This works for guys too , if you want to get less pain from breakups. You can also write a list of things you hate about him/her in a book and go through it everyday so that you can recall any of them, when you needed.
2007-01-09 08:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by tonycharms05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Start getting your focus on being the best you that you can be. Work on inner self help points. Identify your weaknesses and work on improving them. Build on your strengths. Further your education. Get involved in your career. Help those less fortunate. Spend time mentoring youth. Get a hobby. Spend time with friends. Build a closer walk with God. Spend time with family.
2007-01-09 08:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a journal. write your feelings about him in it every day--
what you would say to him, what you remember, how sad you are etc. go back and read what you wrote on previous days.
focus on remembering and fantasizing about the relationship as long as you need to. write him letters you don't send. paint pictures for him...that you don't give him....make a needlepoint dedicated to him. spend all your time involved in memories and fantasies of him. honestly it will work the best. slowly, slowly you will get over him by processing the feelings this way.
2007-01-09 08:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by BonesofaTeacher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself preoccupied, if you let yourself think about it its gonna bring more heartbreak so join a club, get a job, take up a sport or something like that. Thats what i did and im way over the guy!!!
2007-01-09 08:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE most important way to get over someone is to totally cut off all contact with them. Don't call, write, speak, or visit ever again. Time will cure the rest.
2007-01-09 08:01:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋