Yesterday i told my friend that i like her, and she took it very well, then she told me that she liked me too.. but am not sure if she is telling the truth or not. Am very serious about her, i have shared my feelings with her and am starting to fall in love. I need help in realizing if she truly likes me, because i love her, and i would give my life for her.
2007-01-09 07:41:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are in a very serious situation. Be sure you are compatible with her. Part of falling in love is overlooking the shortcommings and building up the strengths in your mind. Be sure she is someone you can spend you life with and have your kids.
2007-01-09 07:47:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone takes time. You need to know eachother completely or you are just in love with an idea of love. You need time to be around them as they go through tons of emotions and see how they handle it and if they are compatible with how you would handle yourself in a similar situation. Your lives aren't consumed by the thought of eachother, but when you are apart you miss them and can't wait to be together again but not so much that you forget about keeping in touch with living your dreams for your future. It is more than being able to sacrifice your life for her. It is more like she lives her life and is a better person because of your good ways that inspire her to choose better ways. If you can say what is on your mind and not just what you know she wants to hear especially if it is contradicting to what she thinks, but she respects your thoughts and considers what you have to say and you respect what she has to say too. Pressure should be at a bare minimum at all times and when it comes time to making love there should be no pressure at all and all the consequences planned out because it doesn't always go as planned condoms break or slide off, birth control doesn't always work and people have been known to get pregnant just messing with each if there has been any contact with sperm even accidental. Disease can happen if you too aren't eachothers first everything and most don't know when they have one. Are you willing to take that risk, have you talked about it with her. Just take your time really getting to know eachother the last thing you want to be doing is asking the internet if you should be marrying her if that is what it comes to in the future, if you feel the need to ask someone else, then I would say you need more time. Remember this is your life and your choices are yours to make and your consequences to live out not anyone who gives you advice. Maybe you can find a really great couple that are really good for each other and find out their opinion about what makes their real love is and what is really needed to make a marriage work. I could go on and on about this, but this is your life, I hope you make the right choices for you and never settle for less than you deserve. Many Blessings
2007-01-09 16:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by DatingAgain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people need to realise that love isn't a measurable process. Like meet someone - Evaluate compatability - Declare statre of love - get married - buy house - have kids - retire - die.
It's a raw gut emotion you will feel it when you are with the person you love because their prescnece makes you feel elated and overjoyed. Whether you have common interestes etc is just details... they may be what keeps you together if that love dies which it can there are no rules to love man just appreciate it when you find it.
You can wish to love someone you can wish you didn't but you can't pick and choose love it finds you.
2007-01-09 15:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bohdisatva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love can be easily misconstrued as an infatuation. infatuation is where you truly don't KNOW the person yet and you really like what you do know. love is a whole different enchilada love is about that person being your best friend and knowing that they have flats and what they are and excepting that they have them because NOBODY is perfect. love isn't really just all the things you see on TV and movies. it is much much more than that... if you truly love HER then you shouldn't be asking about ways to find out but asking about how you should tell her.
2007-01-09 15:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by amers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really really think you're falling in love with her it'll just come to you. They're no set thing that you look for if you're honestly in love. I start falling in love with my boyfriend when I realized that there's nobody that could replace him.
2007-01-09 15:49:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no rules to love, there is no "you have to know her for years to love her" or "you have to give your life for them to love them!"
Thats all bullcrap. You define what love is. I love a girl because she is cute and I have been like that for 4 years, I would give my life for her and what? Because of her looks and her attitude?
You can call me a fool, but love is when you would give your life for someone by my definition. You can define it what you want.
2007-01-09 15:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To love and to give your life to that person is to risk. To know if the love is true, you have to risk. To love is the biggest bet.
You might get hurt, but if you don't risk, you'll never know if she loves you.
Love is all about uncertainty. It is the uncertainty that makes love beautiful.
2007-01-09 16:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by lemonfridge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no other way except telling her that you would give your life for her. At least she should be honored. Be prepared however to face and accept whatever her answer might be.
2007-01-09 15:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Vesna G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is never a hundred percent sureness to know when your in love.
2007-01-09 15:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i found this for myself if you love the person you be there for that person and have fun a lot. if you just like that person you just there.
2007-01-09 15:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by INOTFRIEND 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋