yesterday i wrote in permenent marker on some of my brothers things and his cards to make it look like my sister did it. i got perment marker on my gray sweatshirt and i can't get it off. what should i do? i know my parents are going to find out cause i got some on my hands too. should i lie and tell them i saw my sister do it? i need to come up with a story on why i got marker on my sleeves. it looks really bad because i tried to wash it out but it smeared all over. it was stupid but if i tell my parents i will get in so much trouble.
2007-01-09 07:24:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
no. he will get into a fight with my sister if he thinks it is her. should i put the marker in her room?
2007-01-09 07:32:14 · update #1
what could happen? i could get grounded or have to work it off or get spanked or a couple things. i need to come up with a story.
2007-01-09 07:37:42 · update #2
rumbler thank you for being my friend. i think your answer is the best. i should tell the truth but i don't want to get in trouble and am scared about telling them.
2007-01-09 10:30:18 · update #3
Zach, Rumbler_12 again. A few people here are telling you to lie, but most say you should be truthful. I have been trying to give you good advice based on you saying you want to be more grown up.
My advice is to go to them and tell them you did that in the heat of anger (which you did) before you thought about it. You must apologize to them and to your brother and also to your sister,, because you were trying to blame her for something you did.
I think you are a good boy, I really do, and you are at one of the most difficult stages of your young life. You're aboutto mature and yet you are still a boy and your descisions bear this out.
Soon your body will change and with it your judgement will tend to get better, but neither is going to happen overnight. You say you are smaller then most other kids your age. That is because your body and mind are still pre-pubescent. I understand you to some degree because I matured late too. i was about 14 before I noticed the changes of puberty.
On another question I advised you to begin to try hard to do things like homework, showers etc without having to be told. As you do this you will get more privledges.
As to this matter, you must do the right thing and confess. You will get into trouble I'm sure, but that will pass. If you try to do something wrong and then blame others for it, that is a bad thing.
Tell your parents, and you must mean it, that you want to try to do better and will try hard to do more responsible things.
Then do it! Try very hard. Don't try to get back at others or any of that.
I know you think you don't need a shower so often, but even that, even learning that you really do is a sign of maturity. When you are a boy you don't tend to stink as much as when you are in puberty. You sure will then and you will know it, so you will probably want a daily shower. You probably smell a bit more than you realize now. People tend to get sweaty after 12 to 20 hours, no matter what. Take your shower or bath on schedule, 3 a week is lenient. Wash good, wash your elbows, ankles, feet, between your toes, your underarms and your bottom and private area very well. You will really feel better if you do. Also your parents will notice you take better care of your self and will be proud to see that. Do your homework right away when you get home, it's better to have it out of the way, anyway. clean your room, then keep it clean. It sound like a lot, but not really and you can do it. When they see you doing these things you will get more privledges, over time, not right away. they have to see you are consistent and sincere.
Again you are not stupid and you probably are a pretty good boy, but to get privledges we must prove we can handle them.
Those are just some things you can do, there are others.
When your parents are home, as hard as it might be, go confess and apologize to ALL parties in this, tell them you want to do better. It is really the only right way.
Please take care and I wish you well.
2007-01-09 08:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by rumbler_12 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you kiding me!!?? How old are you!?
This is life man, every action has a reaction. Stories are not going to help you get through life. Learn how to deal with concequences and better yet maybe this will help you become a man and make the right decisions. Your obviously old enough to kow better and well aware of the concequences. Tell them why you did it and you obviously have some issues with feeling unloved or unapreciated you may want to discuss this with you parents
2007-01-09 08:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by rnavarro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
neither of those possible outcomes are world ending. Step up and tell the truth. Lying like this could cause a rift with your sister that could last for years. Not to mention affecting your own self respect.
2007-01-09 07:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by BobbyR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have done that dumb stuff in the first place!!!! What you did was very immature and i think you need a little discipline in your life...............You better not blame it on your little sister and get her in trouble because the truth always comes out and once your parents find out that it was ou and not her you'll be in alot more trouble than you expect!!!!! do the right thing and come clean!
2007-01-09 08:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
throw the sweatshirt away(outside) and lie, i know it sounds bad, but your sister would do the same to you. And stop doing stupid stuff like that anyways!
2007-01-09 07:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by willy p 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
HaHaHa! Busted! Grow some balls and own up to it. You're a crappy brother to let your sister take the fall.
2007-01-09 07:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by zinntwinnies 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wash your hands and your clothes in soap and warm water and hope they don't figure you out. But don't lie. Do not bear false witness is one of the ten commandments.
2007-01-09 07:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by John Luke 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding me? Do the right thing man. Tell the truth.
2007-01-09 07:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just confess to it... what's the worst that could happen? And is that really a big deal?
2007-01-09 07:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't tell your parents and they find out anyway, you're going to be in more trouble. Just suck it up and tell them you did it.
2007-01-09 07:30:38 · answer #10 · answered by Tora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋