My ex always pushes sex. WE have always had sex when we were broke up. But I no longer?

Question

want that.
He is very pushy. I can tell him not to come over and he shows up on my doorstep.
This is the relationship he likes with me - sex once a week and a few phone calls.
I want to date and go out and have fun and not worry about when he will come see me.
The sex is always good but it just makes me want to be with him more.
What should I do?

Answer 1

First of all if you know he is coming over then call another friend to come over, so he won't try anything. Stick up for yourself girl if you don't no one will. Love yourself more than to let this NO GOOD SCUM BAG take advantage of you like that. He is doing it because you let him. Go out and have some fun for yourself. Good luck and be strong.

Answer 2

This sounds familiar. See the thing is I think you are the only source for pleasure, besides masturbation and I don't think he wants to give that up so easily. Maybe getting another guy friend can help you out here. Well another guy friend that you can talk to on a constant bases to keep your ex at a distance. If he shows up at your door and wants sex. Say you're on your period or it hurts when you pee something that makes your vagina unaccessable. Try eating something spicey while he is around so if he wanted oral, he'll regret it...I think...well I don't know if eating something spicey would hurt him, it's just theory. If you don't want this to continue make sure it stops because he's going to want it to continue. Good Luck

Answer 3

You need to have some respect for yourself and end this thing once and for all. He's just getting exactly what he wants without having to put any work or emotions into it. He will never go for a relationship with you if he doesn't have to. End it and move on. There are plenty of guys out there that can give you more than just a booty call.

Answer 4

Stop having sex with him!