Okay so long story short... im a 17 year old guy and ive been good friends with this girl for about a year. and recenetly i have developed a huge crush on her...i cant get her out of my head no matter how hard i try. i found out from a close friend taht she likes me a little too, however, the only reason that she doesnt fully like me is because shes taller than me. i know theres nothing about that i can do and ive tried hanging out with her more so little things like that wouldnt matter but it never seems like we have the time to do anything together...im not sure what to do and im open to any and all suggestions....thanks
2007-01-09 07:23:13 · 6 answers · asked by NYR3477RG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww...That Sucks.
Well, that has happened with one of my friends. This kid in my class really likes this girl in my class, but the girl is about...2 inches taller that him. I mean, he has tried his hardest to get her to like him as much as he likes her, beacuse rumors are going around that she likes him but wont date him beacuse she is taller.
Well, This has been going around for about a year now, and finally one day she just said to him that she really does like him, and his height doesint matter. (lol, this was the story of the year)
She said that she was only worried about what other people would say.
So I guess what Im trying to say is: if she really did like you, even a little, she wouldint care about heights. She probuably only cares about what other people will say/think.
Good luck though, I think you should just talk to her. Like, sit with her and talk.
2007-01-09 07:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by ~Brown Eyes~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that overall, if you don't confess that you like her - then you'll be wondering for the rest of your life why you didn't. You guys are already friends so you're already on her mind lots of the time and she clearly likes you. What you should do is tell her one day how you feel about her and if she rejects you just say: okay, at least I got that off my chest, now I know we can just be friends. Or if she accepts you, then you're ready to rock!
Height means nothing btw, you don't need to change anything about you. You just need to realize that it's no big deal and then it'll be fine. I'm only average (5"10) and when women are in heels, that's a bit of a problem - but it doesn't annoy me and so then it doesn't annoy them!
Good luck!
2007-01-09 15:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by Larry003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try planning something in advance but tell her it is just a friendly get together. You need to prove to her that you will do whatever you can to get her and that she is the only thing that matters to you in your life.
2007-01-09 15:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Billy Bob Joe Bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow tough for you. I mean i understand where she's coming from but make it ure buisness to dress so proffesionally when you go out- wear thick soled shoes, and suggest for her not to wear high heels. That would help rite?
2007-01-09 15:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by Hershey's Kiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her more bluntly! Ask her out on a romantic date again. I am tall and I would like that in a man.
2007-01-09 15:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you are too young to find a girl that is mature enough to date a shorter guy.
2007-01-09 15:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋