IM 21!! I DONT THINK THAT ITS WRONG!! THIS IS A DEBATE BETWEEN ME AND SOMEONE ELSE!! LET ME KNOW UR OPINION!
2007-01-09 07:19:42 · 20 answers · asked by SEXY CRML 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I fail to see what the moral delima could be. Assuming that the two are mature (or at least equaly mature) I see no reason why there should be a problem. It is true that in general men mature slower then women, but I believe that this has more to do with cultural and parental influences then gender difference and there are many men who mature much faster. In the same light there are many women who mature much slower then others.
2007-01-09 07:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by BoranJarami 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not wrong, but you may find that you have a lot of differences in both outlook on life and memories. The 29 year old probably has a better education (I hope) and her opinions will be based on that as well. Oh the other hand, if you are happy, you can work through these issues and make you relationship stronger. Good Luck!!
2007-01-09 17:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong, but their are consequences to deal with. Meaning that men that are 19 years old have a different mind set then a 29 year old women. Most 19 year old men are vulnerable and gullible and some like that fact they are dating an older women...it builds there own ego up. Most 29 year old women are on a level that want to settle, possible get married and have children.
2007-01-09 15:26:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Look at Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher - their age difference is much greater then 10 years and they're both very happy. Both parties are legal and it is the decision of the individuals. Hell, if she can score a hot 19 year old, power to her!
2007-01-09 15:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by L ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong and could be very fun, but.... if you plan on it being a long time relationship you may be sorry. Even if it did last a long time, more than likely eventually it would end. Probably by him dumping you. Women do not age as well as men, and he would probably trade you in for a younger version sooner or later.
2007-01-09 15:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by kimb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - its not wrong - I was 19 when I married my first wife - she was 32 at the time. We were married for 12 years - and most of the time it was good, but as we got older, at least for me my goals in life changed and we grew apart.
2007-01-09 15:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by InTheGroove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think it is not too bad. I do believe a 10 yr. age diff is really the maximum in NORMAL situations.
*IF* your Michael Douglas and have the bucks? Why not?
2007-01-09 15:23:34 · answer #7 · answered by DanjoHart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that not rong if ur both over 18 its kool age is just a number
2007-01-09 15:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by C.C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are both of age but you have to think there is ten years between you is this what you really want. it would seem to that he has some growing to do yet.
2007-01-09 15:25:09 · answer #9 · answered by stanley w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both adults, both consenting, so its legal. Morally and life experience wise, that is really up to you and the kid to talk about.
2007-01-09 15:26:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋