What do you think about an all around genuine guy, who is honest and caring and one of the funniest mofo's you will ever meet but has a weight issue?
This guy is usually the leader of his pack, and is cool enough to goto the coolest clubs, but now is over 100lbs over weight and has man boobs.
He has a lot of girls who are "friends" now , mostly because he is not sexually confident due to his body. would you get involved with him romentically? any opinions?
2007-01-09 07:17:19 · 30 answers · asked by The Brown Bomber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how lonely i am, but i get depressed sometime because i pretty much click with most girl i want to weather they are hot or not. and tell you what most of them are very hot. I use to be Kid Kool but lately i don't know whats going on and i ask this on the internet because there is no way i talk to my buddies about it.
2007-01-09 08:50:30 · update #1
MAN, SHUT UP
FUNNIEST MOFO?
WHAT KINDA OF DOUCHEBAG USES MOFO?
LEADER OF THE PACK?
GRRRRR....IF YOU HAD TO ASK THIS QUESTION ON SOMETHING AS LAME AS YAHOO ANSWERS......DAMN, PRETTY LAME....KEEP EATING THOSE CHEESEBURGERS, FATTIE....
2007-01-09 07:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by cryingrainbow 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I'm going to tell you the truth. And please read my whole answer. I want to say this, too, though... On a previous Yahoo! answers account a while back I asked a few similar questions. It's nice to hear a guy ask a question such as yours. Sometimes it feels like girls are the only ones who feel pressure or are judged due to their weight, and that's not the case.
First, this is where your opinion is coming from: I'm very intelligent, hard working, fun, funny, loyal, etc. I have a very pretty face, but I have about an extra 10 pounds on me. I'm cute but I'm no supermodel ! (And I'm not complaining)
All right, now for the truth...
If I was single, I would think that 100 pounds over-weight for a man is too much (assuming that you're speaking of 100 pounds of fat and little muscle). It's hard for me to give a good example, but I'd say 40 pounds over-weight is prefectly fine, 60 pounds over-weight isn't bad at all either, but over that is starting to push it. However, confidence is necessary! NOT *********, but content with one's body. A good personality goes a LONG way.
However, if my boyfriend gained 100 pounds, I wouldn't care at all. I'd love him just the same. More to hug. I guess because I was initially attracted to him, fell in love with him for who he truly is, and if he gained weight, I'd love him just the same. Is that weird?
But that's just my opinion. An Abercrombie model wouldn't give me a second look, and you know what? I'd never even try to get an Abercrombie model. It's all about what someone prefers.
2007-01-09 07:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like guys with a little meat but 100 pounds overweight isn't healthy. Your confidence seems to be stemming from other sources (getting into clubs, etc.) and girls can see that it's sort of a substitute for you feeling comfortable with yourself. If there is an attraction, I think most girls would become romantically involved, but our of concern for your health and for you as a person I think any girl would want you to get in shape. Maybe you could do it together. Do it for yourself though, not for someone else, and then you'll truly be happy in the end with or without a girl. That will come naturally when you are clearly comfortable with yourself.
2007-01-09 07:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by quartertil2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur weight obviously is an issue for u as u don't feel confident in urself. and u could be all those things that u claim u r u know cool, funny and all that but it would not come across if you do not feel confidence. so you need to develop some confidence and you might start to feel better about yourself if you lost weight. you sound young so i don't see why you can't shift the weight now
2007-01-09 07:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can a person be attratced to you when you don't even find yourself attractive? this sounds like a great person the only thing is that he has no confidence. If his weight is such an issue with his self maybe they should try to do something about it you know gym diet and what not becuase if your not having faith and confident in your self how is anyone else suppose to see that in you? it all starts with you
2007-01-09 07:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by Aronda L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its whats on the inside that counts. Everything on the inside makes the outside better. Beauty fades over time but you'll remain the same person inside. I wouldn't have any problem being involved with someone who is honest, caring, and funny no matter what they looked like. I wish you the best ;)!
2007-01-09 07:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by flowerintherain02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i knew him well enough to know that we were compatible, then size wouldn't be an issue...
i personally do not have weight limits, but there are some females who do and who care more about the exterior than the person inside. i would advise the guy to start working out to regain his self confidence if that's what he wants to do...
2007-01-09 07:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by **Lil QT** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, it sounds like he has an awesome personality. I would be concerned with his health and possibly his ambitions though. It's not good for you to be that much overweight. If he was trying very hard to shed the pounds then I might find his hard work and dedication rather sexy.
2007-01-09 07:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by Summer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can make girls laugh then I don't think how you look is a major issues although it will certainly play a part especially in the early stages of meeting someone.
If they aren't attracted to you at all then forget it.
2007-01-09 07:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a very nice guy; but to be honest...I think it shows a lot of disrespect for oneself if they let their weight get that out of hand; unless it was a medical problem. If this guy doesn't respect himself enough to try to get healthy; how can I expect him to respect me? Not that I would date a fitness addict either...But that is just my thoughts...no offense meant or anything.
2007-01-09 07:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sad truth? you may run into some problems because sadly it is looks that attracts us to people first.. maybe work on yourself a bit.. and continue doing what your doing just try to get some of that weight off because not only will your love life improve, your health will too. good luck sweetheart
2007-01-09 07:22:14 · answer #11 · answered by yourmygoodfeeling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋