I have a seriously messed up sister.
She is 12. I'm 14. I hate having her around.
Just a second ago she wanted to have Yahoo Messenger, Yahoo Answers, and everything else.
I was forced to give her an email address. But, my parents wouldn't let me have one until I was 13.
She gets everything that she could ever want when she wants it!
I can't stand her.
She's the biggest butt in the world.
I HATE her. (even though i sort of love her)
The only reason that she is still living is because of my big brother...who is now in college.
(exageration I wouldn't really kill her)
But, I would love to.
Help me.
2007-01-09 06:38:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds to me like she just wants to be like you, which is a compliment! She follows you around because she looks up to you. You should try and be a little more tolerant of her!
2007-01-09 06:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by Allison 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someday you will be grateful for having this sister in your life and don't be surprised if when you grow up the two of you do not end up being best friends. I was raised as an only child and always wanted a sibling and my friends would tell me what a pain it was having one. I just would think how lucky they were to have someone to share good and bad times with. I believe that your feelings are not only normal towards your sister but are probably healthy also. If you can live with her through the next 6 years or so I'm certain that you'll find that your relationship has improved and laugh about how you once felt having her be a pain in your butt. Good luck, and share the computer with your sister. Ha!
2007-01-09 06:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean! I am also 14 and you think you have it bad I have 1 older sister, 4 little sisters and 1 little brother. Sometimes the idea of flushing them down the toilet sounds good. ( don't really try it, I tried to do it to my 4 yo sister and it didn't end well) Anyway, There ages are 15, 10, 7, 5, 4, and 2...ugg. Yah, doesn't work well in a 3 bedroom 1 bath house.
2007-01-09 06:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by theskysthelimit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have some serious issues there that she is a pain to you dont necessarily meant that she is a bad sis or anything like it just maybe that you both are very different now that your parents didnt allow you to do certain things until a certain age and she gets to do it is not her fault either maybe you should really consider talking to your parents on how much you have noticed the difference between you both
2007-01-09 06:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, just remember that if u kill someone then that will be known as manslaughter which is 1st or 2nd degree murder.
Here is some advice:
2007-01-09 06:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by Erik W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time, you will have to live with her for years just try to work with her, she will get things you never got, you will get things she never got.........when your parents grew up they did not have any toys and were lucky to get an xmas present. now kids of all ages get toys and i bet you had a lot when you a kid. just take it easy and guide her she needs a sister to look out for her
2007-01-09 07:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Butter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are probably just things about her that have really irritated you for years. I would ask God to change her in those areas and forgive her for those things.
2007-01-09 06:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by lifeprayercast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me you have some jeolousy issues you need to deal with and hate is such a strong word to use when reffering to anyone
2007-01-09 06:50:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hate my half-sister, my step-mom and I'm starting to hate my dad. Wait til you get where I am and then start whining.
2007-01-09 06:51:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had some of the same feelings about my bro....its just cuz she looks up to u...and it doesnt help that u live together...one day u will probably be friends tho
2007-01-09 08:55:07 · answer #10 · answered by purplequeen9890 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋