this guy i work with is sooo cute and wants to "mess around" with me even though he has a girlfriend...i want to SOOO bad, but i'm scared of getting my heart broken...what do i do?
2007-01-09 06:35:08 · 17 answers · asked by ambitious_highschooler 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not do it. Only bad can come of it. You WILL get attached and the girlfriend WILL find out! Plus you work with him and when it is over you will still work with him. So if you are interested in losing your job, your respect, and maybe getting a black eye than go for it. Honey believe me, you are better than that! Even if he is cute. Lust will get you into trouble everytime. Also if you let him take up your time than when a really GOOD guy comes along you will miss out because of dumb boy! Good LUCK!!
2007-01-09 06:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tabasco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking that question it is because you are already really into him. You will get your heart broken if you do "mess around" with him. You know he has a girlfriend. What if he dumps her for you? Wouldnt you then worry that he would do the same to you? Dont sell yourself short. There are plenty of good men out there that will not do that too you. You deserve better than "messing around."
2007-01-09 06:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was a white guy and I had a big one. I would use it to my advantage because most chicks are expecting me to have a small one. So they would try and keep me. But I don't know porn seems like a different story with the black guys. They are monsters I feel bad for the women in those movies. So maybe I am a little jealous, But I am still a virgin so I would not know about penis size. But yeah myths are not true for the most part.
2016-05-22 23:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont get your heart broken when you mess around,,that only happens if you actually care for them and if you do care for him surely you have no desire to be number two,,put it to him to call it a day with his girlfriend and if he says 'helllll no',,you know exactly what he thinks of you,,quick thrill while the good stuffs at home,he may be cute but he also hasnt the decency to even lie and say he is free at the minute.they are called rats for a reason ,,they can carry disease and most of the time they,re full of sh!t
2007-01-09 06:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO! Absolutely not! You will get you heart broken because he will never leave the girl for you and if he does...whats stopping him froom cheating on you like he's planning on doing to her? this guy is bad news!
2007-01-09 06:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Gwenith O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you want to be used then have fun! This guy is no good and has a gf, would you like to be the known as "the other woman"? In the end, this is your call but use your head especially if your prone to heartbreakings.
2007-01-09 06:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by krazyc122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be the tramp who knowingly has sex with a person who is already in a relationship? No one from the internet can tell you this answer, only you know. The question is very straight foward - the answer should be as well.
2007-01-09 06:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by speakfromspeakers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just messing around, why get your heart involved?
2007-01-09 06:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by QnA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just enjoy it for what it is, don't let emotions get involved. He is being honest with you. I had a guy like that at work and it was awesome.
2007-01-09 06:40:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't mind cheating, then he won't mind telling everyone who will listen.
Don't do it. He'll blab his exploits with you to every guy at work and you'll be known as the office whore.
2007-01-09 06:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋