me and my boy friend ran into my ex-boy friend and my ex still likes me and he called me a ***** cause i broke up with him and my boy friend wants to kick his *** for it and I dont want any one to get hurt and i dont want my boy friend to get mad at me for stopin it but i dont want anyone to get hurt should i stop it or let it go down ????
2007-01-09 06:34:53 · 20 answers · asked by C.C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is simply an issue of maturity, if your mother had broken up with a boyfriend then ran into him while with another man at the movies do you think he would call her an A **** and the current boyfriend threaten to kick his ***? I doubt it.
You can't control your ex, but you can influence your current boyfriend. You should let him know that no matter what the ex says or does it doesn't change your relationship with him, let him know how dissapointed you would be if he got in a fight with your ex, let him know that you expect more maturity from a boyfriend and that by getting involved in a fight, in essence, involves you too and you want no part of it.
Why would he get mad at YOU because you asked him not to fight? Let him know you expect him to honor your wishes, the key word, honor.
Hows that?
2007-01-09 06:47:25 · answer #1 · answered by Tim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to get the college authorities in contact, and that i might want to also call the police (no longer 911, this isn't an emergency, yet call the police station to be sure what might want to be carried out). See, this time Toby were given you contained in the hallway and basically all started kissing you, yet what he tries to rigidity more effective from you? And he said you homestead? it really is stalking, and then next time he follows you homestead (i'm guessing you're utilising?) basically keep utilising and go instantly to the police station. If he's loopy adequate to stay with you there, then he's amazingly nuts and a minimum of if he tries to commence some thing the police are basically contained in the construction. once you get there go on interior and tell them you've been being said. you want to take some action in the previous this receives extremely uncontrolled.
2016-12-28 13:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best not to encourage fighting,,especially on your so-called behalf,,your boyfriend is just mad,,mad at the statement,mad at seeing your ex and more than likely jealous,but,,how will this help? tell him you want no part in this and will have to consider if he is the kind of person you want to be around if he acts this way just over what some idiot ex says,,,,,unless you want them to fight over you and even then,,,,do you actually know who you will be rooting for because it may not end the way your boyfriend wants it to end and you do realize this will be something brought up all the time,,if he looses he wont live it down and his pride will be shot,,,this isnt about protecting your reputation,this is about current disliking the ex but at the end of the day,,it isnt his business,,you ended it all on your own and didnt need him then.
2007-01-09 06:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your boyfriend first and let him know that your ex isn't important to you anymore. Tell him to let it go that way your ex could see that he is not important to you guys and just don't care what he thinks or says. He is just saying things cause he is hurt. Don't make something big out of something small.
2007-01-09 06:40:53 · answer #4 · answered by shygirl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
State your position. Let them both know that this is not going to help the situation at all. Make it clear to the ex that you are not into him. As far as the new boy-tell him that if he wants your respect he will let this go. Good luck!
2007-01-09 06:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by Tabasco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let my current know that while I appreciate his passion for defending my honor I would respect him more if he would ignore you ex's ignorance as you have and request that he not permit anything or anyone from your past to interfere with your current life with him. Remind him how safe you feel with him and how cherished his chivalry is, and ofcourse how over your relationship with you ex is. Tell him something like my God can you believe how immature I was dating some one with so little self control?
2007-01-09 06:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say try to stop it because your ex has to realize that he isnt with you and you are happy now..and you boyfriend has to not get jealous alllthoughhh he is trying to stick up for you and he may get mad at you for not wanting to stop it thinking that your bf might think your protecting your ex..so your in a tough spot...idk
2007-01-09 06:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by btheman8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it. Tell your current bf the that one of the reasons you ended it was beacuse he was immature. Tell him you appreciate that he wants to defend you but it isnt necessary. tell him you have strong feelings for him but if he disrespects you by going ahead with this that it is over. Your ex is just trying to cause drama, don't play his games. Good luck.
2007-01-09 06:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to not worry about your ex. He had his chance with you, he blew it, and now you are with your boyfriend. Make sure he knows that he doesn't have anything to worry about, but you don't want him to get in trouble because of someone that is clearly just upset that he knows he lost you.
2007-01-09 06:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by wanderingphotographer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should put a stop to this possible fight and tell both of these men to act like men and not children who need to pick a fight like they used to do at the playground. Good Luck!
2007-01-09 06:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋