what do i do because i might be pregnant??????????

Question

i am 17 years old fixen to be 18 and i think that i might be pregnant i am really scared i dont know what to do my boyfriend dont know but i think that he has an idea and he doesnt want to ever get married but he tells me that he loves me and all that but i dont know what to do if i am because i want to get married what do i do

Answer 1

first of all, find out if you really are pregnant before you freak out. Get a test, preferably one with a doctor.

THEN when u find out if u are, then deal with what to do. which is TELL ur BF, (if he leaves u hes an asshole) and TELL ur parents. from there they will help u with w.e. u decide to do. Just promise urself one thing, decide, do u want the baby or not, and whatever that choice is, make sure u stick w/ it no matter what babys daddy and ur parents may say.

good luck, and who knows, u might also NOT be pregnant, so calm down a bit =]

Answer 2

Well, first don't panic until you are sure there is something to panic about!! If you are, then you need to make some decisions and nobody here can help you do that. What you do with your own body is your decision and one you will have to live with. If you don't want a child now you can either get an abortion (no doubt will need parental consent if done before 18) or give the child up for adoption. Don't get excited until you're sure.

Answer 3

Having a baby is by NO MEANS a good reason to get married.There is no need to make a bad situation worse by getting married for the wrong reasons. I think all you will do is be resentful. If you are, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! I hope you will one day find a man, not a boy, to marry you and raise a family with. If your not, you might want to consider talking to your boyfriend about what would happen. If you don't like his response, either quit having sex with him or break up with him. Good Luck

Answer 4

You can't force someone to love you and marry you. You have made a child together, but that does not guaranty a life together. You should let your BF and your parents know that you are pregnant and have them help you through it.

If you are unable to keep the child for whatever reason, adoption is the best option for you and the baby.

Good luck sweetie. This is going to be a rough ride for you.

Answer 5

well if you really do want to get married. then you should talk to him about it but here is the thing... only tell him that you are pregnate if you know for sure you are because if you tell him and he freaks out and then your not really pregnate it will probably make him kind of iffy about being with you.

Answer 6

Purchase a home pregnancy test to find out if you are...After finding out the results, well the decision is up to you.

Answer 7

firstly, find out if you are pregnant. it makes no sense worrying until there is actually a problem.

secondly, if you are pregnant and he still doesn't want to marry you, leave him. build a life for your kid and yourself.

if you're not pregnant, and he still does not have marriage in mind still leave him.

Answer 8

take a pregnancy test as soon as possible so you can know and get some of the stress off your mind about it...

Answer 9

tell him how you feel, is he is not ready , it's going to be ok . don't worry , babies choose who they want for a parents , so your unborn baby , is a soul wanting to be with you in this physical world , just be greatful. You will make it thought this !

Answer 10

What do you mean what do you do? You do. You just keep living (take a pregnancy test, duh) and take what comes. You made decisions and if you have consequences to face, face them. You can do it. Millions have before and millions will after you. Don't worry.
And pray. God works.